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Boyslut

A Memoir and Manifesto
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Boyslut by Zachary Zane is a candid memoir exploring themes of identity, sexuality, and personal growth. The author shares his journey of self-discovery, openly discussing the complexities of bisexuality and the challenges of societal norms. Through a mix of personal anecdotes and introspective insights, Zane offers a raw and honest portrayal of embracing one's true self.
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This book may appeal to you if you're interested in candid and humorous explorations of bisexuality and masculinity. It offers a fresh perspective on personal growth, sexual exploration, and the journey to self-acceptance. If you're drawn to memoirs that challenge societal norms with wit and honesty, this could be a captivating read for you.

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A sex and relationship columnist bares it all in a series of essays--part memoir, part manifesto--that explore the author's coming-of-age and coming out as a bisexual man and move toward embracing and celebrating sex unencumbered by shame.

A sex and relationship columnist bares it all in a series of essaysβ€”part memoir, part manifestoβ€”that explore the author’s coming-of-age and coming out as a bisexual man and move toward embracing and celebrating sex unencumbered by shame

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As a boy, Zachary Zane sensed that all was not right when images of his therapist naked popped into his head. He sometimes imagined other people naked, too, and without an explanation why, a deep sense of shame pervaded these thoughts.

Though his therapist assured him a little imagination was nothing to be ashamed of, over the years, society told him otherwise.

In Boyslut, Zane explores these feelings and questions why something as natural as imagination should be a source of shame.

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Boyslut by Zachary Zane is a humorous and insightful memoir and manifesto exploring themes of bisexuality, sexual shame, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. Reviewers highlight Zane's engaging and accessible writing style, with essays that blend personal anecdotes and educational insights, challenging societal norms and encouraging a sex-positive outlook. The book is praised for its candid exploration of Zane’s sexual evolution and its reflective commentary on modern masculinity, bisexual visibility, and non-toxic masculinity.

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ISBN: 9781419764714

Publisher: Abrams

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 25 May 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Abrams Image

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ+ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. He’s also the coauthor of Men’s Health: Best. Sex. Ever.

He has two columns: β€œSexplain It” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health and β€œNavigating Non-Monogamy” at Cosmo, where he shares all the mistakes he’s made in his polyamory journey, so you don’t have to.

He is also the founder and editor in chief of Boyslut zine, which publishes real sex stories from kinksters worldwide. His work on sexuality and relationships has been published in the New York Times, Rolling Stone, the Washington Post, GQ, OUT, and many others.

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