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Not My Family, Never My Child

What to do if someone you love is a drug user
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Not My Family, Never My Child is a compassionate and practical guide for those who suspect or know someone they love is struggling with drug addiction. Drawing on Tony Trimingham's personal loss and over two decades of counselling experience, the book offers clear advice on identifying warning signs, early intervention, coping mechanisms, treatment options, and where to find support. It aims to empower families and friends to navigate the difficult and painful journey of drug dependency with hope and resilience.
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This book is essential for parents, family members, friends, and loved ones affected by drug addiction, as well as professionals working in addiction support services who seek practical strategies and compassionate insights.

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A highly practical guide on helping, supporting and coping with a family member or loved one's struggle with addiction.

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A practical handbook for anyone who suspects (or knows) someone they care about is a drug user. Drawing on the tragic loss of his own son to a heroin overdose and over 20 years working as a counsellor, Tony Trimingham cuts through the media hype and politicking to address the real issues facing the families and friends of someone struggling with addiction.

Filled with constructive suggestions and strategies, Not My Family, Never My Child is aimed at supporting parents, family members, and loved ones of drug users, and the users themselves, through the difficult journey of drug dependency. It includes detailed information on: warning signs, early intervention, coping and survival strategies, treatment, and where to go for additional advice and support.

Not My Family, Never My Child is an invaluable tool that will help families and friends cope with and get through the trauma, guilt, and challenges of supporting someone struggling with drug addiction. Tony Trimingham established the Damien Trimingham Foundation after the death of his 23-year-old son from a drug overdose.

A counsellor for 20 years, Tony has assisted many families affected by illicit drug use through the Foundation's working project, Family Drug Support. In 1999, The Alcohol and Other Drugs Council of Australia awarded Tony an Australia Day Medallion for outstanding achievement in the reduction of alcohol and drug-related harm. In 2008, he was the joint winner of the Prime Minister's Award for work in the field of drugs and alcohol.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781741755251

Publisher: Allen & Unwin

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 February 2009

Country: Australia

Imprint: Allen & Unwin

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 195.0mm

Weight: 226g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Tony Trimingham is the CEO of Family Drug Support, an organisation he founded to assist families of addicts after his son Damien died of a heroin overdose in the late 1990s. More than anyone, he knows what Australian families want and need to know in order to cope with the inevitable fallout once a family member or friend goes on drugs. FDS now receives over 25,000 calls for assistance each year and Tony is in demand both internationally and within Australia as a keynote speaker and media talking head on drug reform policy.

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