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I Belong to Me
A Survivor’s Guide to Recovery and Hope after Religious Trauma
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What does it mean to heal from trauma caused by the people, beliefs, and practices of your faith? Indoctrinated from early childhood to obey, conform, and want what others wanted for her, Tia Levings learned love and acceptance meant being someone other than herself. After years...
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What does it mean to heal from trauma caused by the people, beliefs, and practices of your faith?
Indoctrinated from early childhood to obey, conform, and want what others wanted for her, Tia Levings learned love and acceptance meant being someone other than herself. After years of abuse in a violent marriage and high-control religion, Tia Levings escaped with her children (a story told in her memoir, A Well-Trained Wife) and thought the hardest was behind her.
But that was just the beginning.
With an audacious persistence to reclaim her life, Tia set off on a 15-year path to psychological peace. The result is an emotionally regulated, actualised, self-aware woman who is able to tell her harrowing story without retraumatising herself — a woman who can reach back to help others claim what's theirs. If trauma took your past, it shouldn't get your present and future too.
Through a series of personal stories, therapeutic stages, and resources, Tia Levings guides readers through the journey that helped her leave abuse, rediscover selfhood, and heal her mind, soul, and body after religious trauma — so that you can too.
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ISBN: 9781250374271
Publisher: Castle Point Books
Format: Hardback
Date Published: 22 June 2026
Country: United States
Imprint: Castle Point Books
Audience: General / adult
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Width: 154.0mm
Height: 233.0mm
Weight: 0g
Pages: 400
About the Author
Tia Levings is the NYT bestselling author of A Well-Trained Wife. She writes about the realities of religious trauma, decoding fundamentalist influences in today's culture. She also appeared in the hit Amazon docu-series, Shiny Happy People. Based in North Carolina, she is mom to four incredible adults and likes to travel, paint, and daydream. Find her online @TiaLevingsWriter and at DeconstructingFundamentalism.com
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