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You Didn't Hear This From Me

Notes on the Art of Gossip
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A deliciously insightful exploration of why we are so obsessed with gossip, and what it can tell us about humans and their search for truth. Can you keep a secret? It's harder than it seems—after all, it's only human to thirst after the juicy updates, jaw-dropping... Read More
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A deliciously insightful exploration of why we are so obsessed with gossip, and what it can tell us about humans and their search for truth.

Can you keep a secret? It's harder than it seems—after all, it's only human to thirst after the juicy updates, jaw-dropping stories, and idle chatter that we typically collect over drinks with friends. No one knows this better than journalist Kelsey McKinney, whose Normal Gossip podcast has accrued a listenership of millions.

In You Didn't Hear This From Me, McKinney explores the murkiness of everyday storytelling. What even is gossip, and why is it considered a sin? Why are we obsessed with the details of celebrity drama and tabloid headlines? How do we use and abuse gossip—and why do we want to do it at all? McKinney dives deep into a range of cultural cornerstones—from the Epic of Gilgamesh as told by chatbots, to the head-spinning betrayals in The Traitors—and captures the heart of gossiping: how enchanting and fun it can be to lean over and whisper something a little salacious into your friend's ear.

With wit and honesty, McKinney unmasks what we're actually searching for when we demand to know the truth—and how much the truth really matters in the first place.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241741191

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 20 February 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Viking

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 28.0mm

Width: 143.0mm

Height: 224.0mm

Weight: 395g

Pages: 288

About the Author

Kelsey McKinney is a reporter and writer who lives in Philadelphia. She is the host of Normal Gossip, as well as a co-owner and features writer at Defector.com. She has worked as a staff writer at Deadspin, Fusion, and Vox, and her reporting and essays have appeared in The New York Times, New York Magazine, GQ, Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Vanity Fair and many others. Her first novel, God Spare the Girls, was published in the summer of 2021 by William Morrow.

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