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How to Be Alone

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In How to Be Alone, Sara Maitland explores society's complex relationship with solitude, challenging the stigma that being alone is anti-social or sinister. Tracing changing attitudes through history, Maitland offers practical experiments and strategies to overcome the fear of solitude. Encouraging readers to embrace solitude, she reveals how spending time alone can enrich our lives, fostering autonomy, personal freedom, and deeper self-understanding.
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Ideal for readers interested in self-help, personal development, and those looking to rethink their approach to solitude in a fast-paced, socially connected world.

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Learn how to enjoy solitude and find happiness without other people.

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Our fast-paced society does not approve of solitude; being alone is literally anti-social and some even find it sinister. Why is this so when autonomy, personal freedom and individualism are more highly prized than ever before? Sara Maitland answers this question by exploring changing attitudes throughout history. Offering experiments and strategies for overturning our fear of solitude, she helps us to practise it without anxiety and encourages us to see the benefits of spending time by ourselves. By indulging in the experience of being alone, we can be inspired to find our own rewards and ultimately lead richer, fuller lives.

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    Our fast-paced society does not approve of solitude; being alone is literally anti-social and some even find it sinister. Why is this so when autonomy, personal freedom and individualism are more highly prized than ever before? Sara Maitland answers this question by exploring changing attitudes throughout history. Offering experiments and strategies for overturning our fear of solitude, she helps us...
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Praised for its intelligence and practical insight, the book has been described as "intelligent, non-self-helpy, yet immensely helpful" by the New York Times. The Independent on Sunday lauds it for offering "radical ways to help us raid the treasure trove of human knowledge."

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ISBN: 9781035019731

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 22 June 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bluebird

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 10.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 197.0mm

Weight: 132g

Pages: 176

About the Author

Sara Maitland is the British author of numerous works of fiction, including the Somerset Maugham Award-winning Daughter of Jersualem, and several non-fiction books, including A Book of Silence. Born in 1950, she studied at Oxford University and lives in Galloway, Scotland. Visit her website www.saramaitland.com

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