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Raising Your Spirited Child

A Guide for Parents Whose Child Is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, and Energetic
Series: Spirited
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In this fourth edition of her perennial bestselling book, Dr. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka utilises her deep experience to address the pressures previous generations of parents didn't have to consider. Her empathy and effective advice are exemplified in the introduction of her new and easy to apply... Read More
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In this fourth edition of her perennial bestselling book, Dr. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka utilises her deep experience to address the pressures previous generations of parents didn't have to consider. Her empathy and effective advice are exemplified in the introduction of her new and easy to apply Spirited Child Approach, which nurtures the entire family.

The Spirited Child Approach helps parents understand their child and their own inborn temperament while focusing on three simple, but vital conceptsโ€”calm, connect, and coachโ€”to help their family thrive. Research- and strength-based, yet honest, Raising Your Spirited Child speaks to parent burnout and, in a helpful and supportive manner, offers solutions to that exasperated question, "How am I supposed to stay calm and connect with my child when I'm just trying to survive the moment?"

What's new in this edition?

  • The Spirited Child Approach: This groundbreaking methodology focuses on three key conceptsโ€”calm, connect, and coachโ€”offering practical tools to handle the most stressful situations.
  • Structure as Prevention: Discover how structure and routine can help avoid meltdowns and create a more peaceful home.
  • Tech-Savvy Parenting: Addressing the impact of screen time and social media on both kids and parents, Kurcinka provides actionable advice on managing screen use while nurturing relationships.
  • The Power of Sleep: This edition prioritises sleep for the whole family, offering simple, effective strategies for getting everyone the rest they need to thrive.

Even fans of the previous editions of this book will find tons of brand-new information and skillsโ€”updated with Dr. Mary's latest findings after close to a decade of additional experience as a parenting coach, and for the challenging age of parenting in the age of smartphones and social media.

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    The only living girl in a ghost town struggles to find her place in the first book in the Spirited graphic chapter book series. Olivia Liv Livingston thinks life on the right side of Narrow Bridge is, well, just right! Whatโ€™s not to love about the perfect town of Pleasant Place? But then her parents pack up and move the...
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    Greenhouse of Horror by Liv Livingston follows the adventures of Liv and her classmates as they visit a greenhouse and encounter some strange plants in the third book of the Spirited graphic chapter book series. Livโ€™s science class is tasked with a new botany project: finding the plant that best represents them. Mrs. Arber, the ghost responsible for the Gloomsdale...
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  • Raising Your Spirited Child
    In this fourth edition of her perennial bestselling book, Dr. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka utilises her deep experience to address the pressures previous generations of parents didn't have to consider. Her empathy and effective advice are exemplified in the introduction of her new and easy to apply Spirited Child Approach, which nurtures the entire family. The Spirited Child Approach helps parents...
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  • It Came from the Deep
    Liv Livingston and her friends are off to a weekend camp retreat in book six of the Spirited graphic chapter book series. Liv Livingston packs for a supernatural weekend getaway at the lake! The van Pires have invited her and Howl to their lake home for campfires, swimming, and spooky tales of what lurks in the forest outside of town....
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  • Go, Ghoul, Go!
    Liv tries out for the Gloomsdale Elementary Ghoul Squad in this second book in the Spirited graphic chapter book series. Liv Livingston feels sheโ€™s finally found her footing in her new schoolโ€”even the bat hall monitors at Gloomsdale Elementary donโ€™t screech at her as much! But when Livโ€™s new friend Vera asks her to try out for the Ghoul Squad...
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  • Fangs for the Memories
    Fangs for the Memories by Liv Livingston centres around Liv's vampire friend who loses a prized fang in the fourth book of the Spirited graphic chapter book series. Liv Livingston is having a ghoul-tastic day at her vampire friend Vera van Pireโ€™s houseโ€”which is not the totally creepy castle Liv expectedโ€”with their were-pup friend, Howl. But when the trio play...
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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780063413771

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 September 2025

Country: United States

Imprint: Collins

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 27.0mm

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 203.0mm

Weight: 295g

Pages: 464

About the Author

Dr. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, EdD, is a bestselling author and internationally recognized lecturer and parent educator. Her books Raising Your Spirited Child; Raising Your Spirited Baby; Raising Your Spirited Child Workbook; Kids, Parents and Power Struggles; and Sleepless in America have been translated into more than twenty languages. A former director of one of Minnesota's largest Early Childhood Family Education programs, Mary is the founder of the Spirited Child and Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles workshops. She resides in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband.

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