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How to Love the World

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Perhaps motherhood is always a promise that cannot be kept. Rain or shine, Nellika Werner goes for long walks every day in the bush near her home. The cool silence of the forest helps soothe what is repeatedly torn apart by family life. One morning, she... Read More
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Perhaps motherhood is always a promise that cannot be kept.

Rain or shine, Nellika Werner goes for long walks every day in the bush near her home. The cool silence of the forest helps soothe what is repeatedly torn apart by family life.

One morning, she decides to take a path she’s never walked before. Deep in this remote part of the forest, Nellika is struck by a falling manna gum branch, which pins her to the ground. Shockingly injured and unable to move, with no water or phone, her only hope is that someone will find her.

When her children are born, Nellika vows she will be the perfect mother. Motherhood is something sacred, mythic: it will remake everything that is broken in her. But as her children grow, the myth begins to crack, and she realises some breaks can never be healed.

As the window of hope for rescue gradually closes, and darkness falls on what might be her last day, Nellika makes a reckoning of herself and the place where she lies. Is this fallen branch an accident or a punishment? As death draws close, the forest asks her: why should you live? And in the dark heart of her memories, she discovers that there is an answer.

Both a meditation on nature and healing, and a map of how one generation’s struggle imprints on the next, How to Love the World is brilliant, immersive and ultimately hopeful.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781761635328

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 26 May 2026

Country: Australia

Imprint: Summit Books Australia

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Ilka Tampke is an award-winning author, academic and teacher. Her first two novels explore the druidic culture of Ancient Britain and its disruption by Roman colonisation. Skin (2015) was published in eight countries and nominated for the Voss Literary Prize and the Aurealis Awards. Songwoman (2018) was published in five countries and won the Small Press Network Book of the Year Award in 2019. Ilka was the Katharine Susannah Prichard Writers’ Centre Writer in Residence in 2019 and has lectured and presented at many festivals and organisations around Australia. She teaches creative writing at RMIT University and is currently completing a PhD in Australian forest poetics at La Trobe University.

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