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It Didn't Start With You

How inherited family trauma shapes who we are and how to end the cycle
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It Didn't Start With You by Mark Wolynn explores how inherited family trauma shapes who we are today. Delving into the latest epigenetics research, Wolynn shows how the effects of trauma can be passed through generations and offers practical strategies for healing. It's a compelling look at the science and stories of inherited emotional pain.
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You might like this book if you're interested in understanding how inherited family trauma shapes your present-day life. Combining psychology with personal stories, it provides tools and insights to help break these patterns and heal.

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It Didn't Start With You

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It Didn't Start With You by Mark Wolynn is an eye-opening book that delves into the intergenerational transmission of trauma and its impacts on our physical and mental health. With more than two decades of experience in the field, Wolynn presents a transformative approach to uncovering and healing deeply rooted family patterns that many of us unknowingly inherit.

'Groundbreaking' - Tara Brach

This groundbreaking text explores the unseen connections between our ancestors' unresolved traumas and our own emotional and psychological struggles. Through the latest research in epigenetics and neuroscience, Wolynn reveals how depression, anxiety, chronic pain, phobias, and even obsessive thoughts can stem from the traumatic experiences of our parents, grandparents, and even great-grandparents. This emotional inheritance, embedded in everything from our gene expression to our everyday language, has a profound effect on our health and well-being.

Using case studies and real-life examples, Wolynn illustrates how these inherited traumas manifest in our lives and offers practical techniques for breaking these cycles. His pioneering method combines cutting-edge research with proven therapeutic practices to create a powerful guide that has already helped thousands of people reclaim their lives.

It Didn't Start With You not only provides a thorough understanding of how trauma is passed down through generations but also offers readers actionable steps to heal themselves and their families. By addressing these deep-seated issues, readers can experience profound personal growth and transformation.

Mark Wolynn's work is a beacon of hope for anyone struggling with unexplained emotional or physical pain. His accessible and pragmatic approach makes this book a must-read for those looking to break free from the chains of their family history and build a healthier, more fulfilling future.

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It Didn't Start With You uncovers the hidden impact of inherited family trauma and provides powerful, practical tools for personal healing. It blends neuroscience and psychodynamic thinking, advancing trauma therapy and offering transformative insights. Critics highlight its life-changing stories and compassionate approach to understanding family history.

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ISBN: 9781785044380

Publisher: Ebury Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 June 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Vermilion

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 215.0mm

Weight: 262g

Pages: 256

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About the Author

Mark Wolynn is the founder and director of the Family Constellation Insitute. He has taught at the University of Pittsburgh, the Western Psychiatric Institute, Kripalu, the Omega Institute of Integral Studies in addition to many training centres, clinics and hospitals. His articles have appeared in Psychology Today, Mind Body Green, Mariashriver.com, Elephant Journal, and Psych Central, and his poetry has been published in The New Yorker. He lives in the San Francisco Bay area.

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