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Positive Discipline

The Classic Guide to Helping Children Develop Self-Discipline, Responsibility, Cooperation, and Problem-Solving Skills
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Jane Nelsen's Positive Discipline revolutionises parenting and teaching by emphasising mutual respect over punishment. This revised edition expands on her original ideas, guiding adults to be firm yet kind, fostering creative cooperation and self-discipline in children from toddlers to teens. It offers practical advice on communication, defusing power struggles, avoiding empty praise, enforcing love, and teaching thinking skills, all while preserving children's dignity and self-respect.
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Ideal for parents, teachers, and caregivers seeking respectful and effective methods to guide children and teenagers towards self-discipline and cooperation without punishment.

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An experienced psychologist, educator, and mother explains that parents who use kindness and firmness to teach life skills will encourage self-respect, self-discipline, cooperation, good behavior, and problem-solving skills in their children.

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In 1981, Jane Nelsen's Positive Discipline changed the way parents and teachers think about children. Twenty-five years later, Nelsen has brand new ideas to incorporate into her completely revised edition.

For twenty-five years, Positive Discipline has been the gold standard reference for grown-ups working with children. Now Jane Nelsen, distinguished psychologist, educator, and mother of seven, has written a revised and expanded edition. The key to positive discipline is not punishment, she tells us, but mutual respect. Nelsen coaches parents and teachers to be both firm and kind, so that any childโ€”from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenagerโ€”can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline with no loss of dignity. Inside you'll discover how to:

  • bridge communication gaps
  • defuse power struggles
  • avoid the dangers of praise
  • enforce your message of love
  • build on strengths, not weaknesses
  • hold children accountable with their self-respect intact
  • teach children not what to think but how to think
  • win cooperation at home and at school
  • meet the special challenge of teen misbehaviour

"It is not easy to improve a classic book, but Jane Nelson has done so in this revised edition. Packed with updated examples that are clear and specific, Positive Discipline shows parents exactly how to focus on solutions while being kind and firm. If you want to enrich your relationship with your children, this is the book for you."
โ€”Sal Severe, author of How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too!

Millions of children have already benefited from the counsel in this wise and warmhearted book, which features dozens of true stories of positive discipline in action. Give your child the tools he or she needs for a well-adjusted life with this proven treasure trove of practical advice.

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Praised for its clear, solution-focused approach, this updated edition of Positive Discipline has been hailed as a valuable resource for enriching relationships with children. Customers attest that it makes a significant difference during the critical years of child development.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780345487674

Publisher: Random House USA Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 May 2006

Country: United States

Imprint: Ballantine Books Inc.

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 131.0mm

Height: 203.0mm

Weight: 283g

Pages: 384

About the Author

Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.,coauthor of the bestsellingPositive Disciplineseries, is a licensed marriage, family, and child therapist. Her books have sold over a million copies. She lives in Salt Lake City.

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