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Unfuck Your Parenting

How to Raise Feminist, Compassionate, Responsible, and Generally Non-Shitty Kids
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How do you raise your kids to be functional adults with big hearts? Young people need to learn to stand up against every kind of oppression, respect boundaries and consent, and gain self-compassion while also navigating money, friends, sex, and school. How can you prepare children... Read More
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How do you raise your kids to be functional adults with big hearts?

Young people need to learn to stand up against every kind of oppression, respect boundaries and consent, and gain self-compassion while also navigating money, friends, sex, and school. How can you prepare children and teens to find joy and stability as they cope with uncertainty, violence, and disaster, especially when your own coming-of-age lessons weren't so thoughtfully taught?

Parents and therapists Dr. Faith G. Harper and Bonnie Scott have written a parenting guide for the 21st century that is a must-read for people with children of any age, from infancy to adulthood. Drawing from their experiences raising diverse, politically active young people, Unfuck Your Parenting will help you bring up a new generation with tools to change the world for the better—all while maintaining your own separate identity and relationships, and without losing your mind.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781648413933

Publisher: Microcosm Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 January 2025

Country: United States

Imprint: Microcosm Publishing

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 127.0mm

Height: 178.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 192

About the Author

Bonnie Scott, MA, LPC-S, is a professional therapist in private practice in San Antonio, TX. Born and raised in Texas and New Mexico, she is a staunch ally to the LGBTQ community. She works hard to be an intersectional feminist, generally striving to stir up good trouble in the world. Bonnie is active in her local community and truly believes the world can only get worse unless each of us gives our best. She is passionate about her family, her cats, her books, and her profession.

Dr. Faith G. Harper, ACS, ACN is a bad-ass, funny lady with a PhD. She's a licensed professional counsellor, board supervisor, certified sexologist, and applied clinical nutritionist with a private practice and consulting business in San Antonio, TX. She has been an adjunct professor and a TEDx presenter, and is proud to be a woman of colour and uppity intersectional feminist. She is the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of the book Unf*ck Your Brain and many other popular zines and books on subjects such as anxiety, depression, boundaries and grief. She has been known to publish in academic spaces as well, most recently with a chapter in the book Understanding Indigenous Perspectives. She is available as a public speaker and for corporate and clinical trainings.

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