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Rapport

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Rapport by Emily Alison and Laurence Alison explores the science behind building strong, meaningful connections with others. It provides insights and techniques for improving communication, understanding emotional cues, and fostering trust. The book is designed to help readers enhance their interpersonal skills both in personal and professional contexts.
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You might like this book if you are interested in understanding how to build effective communication skills and create strong connections with others. Through practical techniques and insights drawn from real-world scenarios, it offers valuable strategies for anyone looking to improve their ability to engage and persuade in personal and professional settings.

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Their findings are changing the way law enforcement and security agencies approach the delicate and vital task of gathering human intelligence.' Guardian


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All of us have to deal with difficult people.

A breakout pop psychology book from the world experts on interrogation techniques

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A breakout pop psychology book from the world experts on interrogation techniques.

Laurence Alison is one of my academic heroes. He does what every writer longs to do. He makes the difficult clear - without losing his rigour. - Malcolm Gladwell

They are quietly revolutionising the study and practice of interrogation... Their findings are changing the way law enforcement and security agencies approach the delicate and vital task of gathering human intelligence. - Guardian

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All of us have to deal with difficult people. Whether we're asking our neighbour to move a fence or our boss for a pay rise, we can struggle to avoid arguments and get what we want.

Laurence and Emily Alison are world leaders in forensic psychology, and they specialise in the most difficult interactions imaginable - criminal interrogations. They advise and train the police, security agencies, the FBI and the CIA on how to deal with extremely dangerous suspects when the stakes are high.

After 30 years' work - and unprecedented access to 2,000 hours of terrorist interrogations - they have developed a ground-breaking model of interpersonal communication. This deceptively simple approach to handling any encounter works as well for teenagers as it does for terrorists. Now it's time to share it with the world.

Rapport reveals that every interaction follows four styles - Control (the lion), Capitulate (the mouse), Confront (the Tyrannosaur) and Co-operate (the monkey). As soon as you understand these styles and your own goals you can shape any conversation at will. And you'll be closer to the real secret - how to create instant rapport.

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Rapport by Emily Alison and Laurence Alison has received positive feedback for its ability to present complex ideas clearly, maintaining academic rigour while being accessible. Malcolm Gladwell appreciates the clarity they bring to their work, while The Guardian highlights their revolutionary approach to interrogation, influencing law enforcement and intelligence strategies.

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ISBN: 9781785042065

Publisher: Ebury Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 July 2020

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Vermilion

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 28.0mm

Width: 134.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 367g

Pages: 368

About the Author

Emily Alison (Author) Emily Alison is behavioural advisor and clinical supervisor to organisations working with domestic violence; her programmes are now used by over 100 organisations. Laurence Alison (Author) Laurence Alison is professor of psychology at the University of Liverpool, and head of the Centre for Critical Incident Decision Making. He has an international reputation and is widely published in relation to his work on decision-making in high-stake environments, interviewing and interrogation, as well as prioritisation and detection of sex offenders. He has been psychological advisor on nearly 500 major incidents, including high profile murder cases and London bombings.

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