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Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life

A Psychologist Investigates How Evolution, Cognition, and Complexity are Revolutionizing Our View of Human Nature
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Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life delves into the surprising connections between our primal instincts and everyday behaviours. It combines insights from evolutionary psychology to explore how human nature influences everything from the choices we make in relationships to our social interactions. The author presents real-life examples and research to illuminate the underlying factors that shape our motivations and actions in a compelling and accessible manner.
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You might enjoy this book if you're intrigued by the intersection of evolutionary psychology and human behaviour. It offers a fascinating exploration of how our primal instincts influence everyday decisions related to love, conflict, and existential questions. If you’re drawn to quirky insights into the human psyche, it provides a unique blend of scientific analysis and personal anecdotes, all delivered with a touch of humour.

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"Breezy and engaging...a book that debunks our intuitive justifications for our behaviour.... will not fail to entertain." -New Scientist

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“Kenrick writes like a dream.” - Robert Sapolsky, Professor of Biology and Neurology, Stanford University, author of A Primate's Memoir and Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers

What do sex and murder have to do with the meaning of life? Everything. In Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life, social psychologist Douglas Kenrick exposes the selfish, animalistic underside of human nature, and shows how it is intimately connected to our greatest and most selfless achievements.

Masterfully integrating cognitive science, evolutionary psychology, and complexity theory, this intriguing book paints a comprehensive picture of the principles that govern our lives. As Kenrick divulges, beneath our civilized veneer, human beings are a lot like howling hyenas and barking baboons, with heads full of homicidal tendencies and sexual fantasies. However, many ingrained, apparently irrational behaviours—such as inclinations to one-night stands, racial prejudices, and conspicuous consumption—ultimately manifest what he calls "Deep Rationality."

Although our heads are full of simple selfish biases that evolved to help our ancestors survive, modern human beings are anything but simple and selfish cavemen. Kenrick argues that the simple and selfish mental mechanisms we inherited from our ancestors ultimately give rise to the multifaceted social lives we lead today and to the most positive features of humanity, including generosity, artistic creativity, love, and familial bonds. From those simple mechanisms emerge all the complexities of society, including international conflicts and global economic markets.

By exploring the nuances of social psychology and the surprising results of his own research, Kenrick offers a detailed picture of what makes us caring, creative, and complex—that is, fully human. Illuminated with stories from Kenrick's colourful experiences—from his criminally inclined shantytown Irish relatives, his own multiple high school expulsions, broken marriages, and homicidal fantasies, to his eventual success as an evolutionary psychologist and loving father of two boys separated by 26 years—this book is an exploration of our mental biases and failures, and our mind's great successes.

Idiosyncratic, controversial, and fascinating, Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life uncovers the pitfalls and promise of our biological inheritance.

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Several reviewers praise Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life by Douglas Kenrick for its engaging and humorous writing style while highlighting his expertise in evolutionary psychology. They commend his ability to connect complex scientific concepts with relatable examples, making the book both entertaining and thought-provoking. The fusion of Kenrick's personal stories with scientific insights is noted for providing a refreshing perspective on human behaviour and motivation.

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ISBN: 9780465032341

Publisher: Basic Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 08 January 2013

Country: United States

Imprint: Basic Books

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 16.0mm

Width: 234.0mm

Height: 156.0mm

Weight: 380g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Douglas T. Kenrick is a professor of psychology at Arizona State University and the author of Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life. He lives in Tempe, Arizona.

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