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Taming Toxic People

The Science of Identifying and Dealing with Psychopaths at Work & at Home
Brief Description
Psychopaths are everywhere. They are your toxic boss, controlling boyfriend, lazy colleague, annoying mother-in-law and negligent friend - the person who gets away with bad behaviour time and time again. While often superficially charming, they are also rude, aggressive, manipulative, duplicitous and dishonest. Five per cent... Read More
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Psychopaths are everywhere. They are your toxic boss, controlling boyfriend, lazy colleague, annoying mother-in-law and negligent friend - the person who gets away with bad behaviour time and time again. While often superficially charming, they are also rude, aggressive, manipulative, duplicitous and dishonest.

Five per cent of the population is psychopathic, which means they are missing the critical human ingredient of empathy. Because they are programmed to put themselves first, these people routinely disrupt and even destroy relationships and organisations, seemingly without consequence.

Drawing on the latest science, bestselling author David Gillespie offers a detailed and practical guide to identifying the psychopath in your midst, then managing the behaviour to minimise the effect on your family, workplace, friendship group or community organisation.

Praise for Taming Toxic People

This compelling study and guidebook is a must-have for anyone who has a pathologically difficult individual in their life. Kim Williams

Gillespie is academically gifted, a linguist, excellent at most things he turns his mind to ... he's a polymath, an old-fashioned Renaissance man, who finds few things dull and everything else interesting. Courier Mail

David Gillespie has done a tremendous service to the general public in writing this book. Huffpost

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781761268977

Publisher: Pan Macmillan Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 January 2024

Country: Australia

Imprint: Pan Australia

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 133.0mm

Height: 201.0mm

Weight: 220g

Pages: 400

About the Author

Former corporate lawyer, co-founder of a successful software company and technology investor, David Gillespie is the bestselling author of the Sweet Poison books, Big Fat Lies, Free Schools, Toxic Oil, Eat Real Food, The Eat Real Food Cookbook, Teen Brain, The Good Fat Guide, Brain Reset and Toxic at Work. He lives in Brisbane with his wife and six children.

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