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On Getting Off

Sex and philosophy
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In On Getting Off, Damon Young explores the complex relationship between sexual desire and human behaviour through a philosophical and psychological lens. The book delves into how lust influences our thinking, decision-making, and even societal norms, offering insightful reflections on the intertwining of mind and body. Young's work invites readers to consider the deeper implications of their desires beyond mere physical gratification.
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This thought-provoking exploration offers a unique blend of philosophy and psychology, analysing the human quest for pleasure and its complexities. You might enjoy it if you're intrigued by the deeper insights into how pleasure shapes human experience and behaviour while challenging societal norms and beliefs.

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The curious reader's companion to sex.

'Wit, you know, is the unexpected copulation of ideas.' - Samuel Johnson

Why is screwing so funny?
How should we think about our most shocking fantasies?
What is so captivating about nudity?

Inspired by philosophy, literature, and private life, Damon Young explores the paradoxes of the bedroom. On Getting Off will fk with your mind.

'A beautiful piece of work. It's funny. It's human. It really does make you think about something that's either put on a pedestal or relegated to the toilet. A triumph.' - Krissy Kneen, author of Triptych

'Drawing on personal experience, literature, myth, art and philosophy, Young examines how the fragile tension crucial to sexual arousal is akin to a narrative, the way sex highlights the impossibility of knowing another's pleasure, and how nakedness offers not so much a revelation of someone's 'true self' as an invitation to learn more about that person.' - Fiona Capp, Sydney Morning Herald

'Young has a deftness with language that lays out complex ideas with such beautifully written digestibility that you feel osmotically clever when you read them.' - The Irish Times

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781925849219

Publisher: Scribe Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 November 2020

Country: Australia

Imprint: Scribe Publications

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 197.0mm

Weight: 272g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Damon Young is a prize-winning philosopher and writer. He is the author or editor of twelve books, including The Art of Reading, How to Think About Exercise, Philosophy in the Garden, and Distraction. His works have been translated into eleven languages, and he has also written poetry, short fiction, and children's fiction. Young is an Associate in Philosophy at the University of Melbourne.

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