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The Drama of the Gifted Child (Third Edition)

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The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller explores the impact of childhood emotional experiences on adult life. It delves into how individuals often suppress their true feelings to meet parental expectations, leading to a disconnection from their authentic selves. The book offers insights into recognising and healing these emotional wounds for personal growth and self-discovery.
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You might enjoy this insightful book if you're interested in understanding the psychological impact of childhood experiences on adult life. It delves into the hidden emotional struggles of gifted children and offers guidance on how to heal and gain self-awareness. Perfect for those on a journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and emotional healing.

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Now revised and updated to reflect the author's new insights, this modern classic explains why many of the most successful children and adults are plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation--and tells how to break the cycle.

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Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided thousands of readers with an answer and has helped them apply it to their own lives.

Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents' expectations and win their love. Alice Miller writes, "When I used the word gifted in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb."

Without this gift offered to us by nature, we would not have survived. But merely surviving is not enough. The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.

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The Drama of the Gifted Child continues to receive praise for its insightful examination of how childhood experiences shape adult behaviour and emotions. Many reviewers appreciate Alice Miller's profound explorations into the emotional wounds gifted and sensitive children endure, highlighting the importance of facing repressed feelings for personal healing and growth. Some readers have noted the book's ability to provide clarity and validation for their own childhood experiences, though some critiques mention that its intense psychological insights may not resonate with everyone.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780465016907

Publisher: Basic Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 22 July 2008

Country: United States

Imprint: Basic Books

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 10.0mm

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 202.0mm

Weight: 112g

Pages: 144

About the Author

Alice Miller has achieved worldwide recognition for her work on the causes and effects of childhood traumas. Her books include The Drama of the Gifted Child, Banished Knowledge, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware, and For Your Own Good. She lives in Switzerland.

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