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Why Does He Do That?
Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
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In this groundbreaking bestseller, Why Does He Do That?, Lundy Bancroft—a counsellor who specialises in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognise when they are being controlled or devalued in a relationship, and to find ways to get free of abuse.
He says he loves you. So...why does he do that?
You've asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about:
- The early warning signs of abuse
- The nature of abusive thinking
- Myths about abusers
- Ten abusive personality types
- The role of drugs and alcohol
- What you can fix, and what you can't
- And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely
"This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives." - Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health
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Lundy Bancroft's Why Does He Do That? provides an insightful look into the psychology of abusive men. The book is praised for its ability to delve into the reasons behind abusive behaviour, offering a perspective often overlooked in discussions about abuse. It combines analytical insights with personal narratives, serving as a valuable resource for both professionals and those affected by abuse. Reviewers highlight its clarity and practical use, marking it as essential reading for understanding the complexities of domestic abuse.
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ISBN: 9780425191651
Publisher: Penguin Putnam Inc
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 02 September 2003
Country: United States
Imprint: Berkley Publishing Corporation,U.S.
Audience: General / adult
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Width: 151.0mm
Height: 228.0mm
Weight: 250g
Pages: 448
About the Author
Lundy Bancroft has over twenty-five years of experience in the fields of abuse, trauma, and recovery. He has published five books, including the bestsellerWhy Does He Do That?, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, The Batterer as Parent, and Should I Stay of Should I Go?.Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness, and has presented to 350 audiences across the U.S. and abroad.
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