How To Say No

Name: How To Say No
Brand: Penguin Random House NZ
SKU: 9780241634097
Price: 35.0 NZD
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Setting boundaries for your friendships, your body and your life

By Michelle Elman

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Summary

How To Say No by Michelle Elman is a beautifully illustrated children's book that empowers young readers to assertively express their boundaries and preferences. Through engaging storytelling and vibrant pictures, the book teaches kids the importance of setting limits and saying no with confidence in various situations, fostering self-respect and healthy communication.
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Format: Paperback / softback

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You might enjoy this book if you're looking to empower children with the ability to set boundaries in a positive and confident manner. It provides practical advice and examples that help children learn the importance of saying no when necessary, enabling them to develop strong personal boundaries and emotional resilience.

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Description

A guide to setting boundaries for your friendships, your body, and your life from author, accredited life coach, broadcaster, internationally-known influencer and TedX speaker, Michelle Elman.

Say NO to demanding friends. NO to parties you don't want to go to. NO to being tied to your phone. NO to unwanted hugs. This is an empowering, essential and playful guide to setting boundaries.

Growing up is a minefield. You have to navigate new friendships, new teachers, your body changes, people are kissing, there never seems to be enough hours in the day ... and why is everyone suddenly posting their breakfast on social media?!

Author and life coach Michelle Elman is here to show you how to say no and take control. 'No' makes you strong. 'No' makes you confident. 'No' makes you realise your worth and what you deserve.

From setting boundaries with friendships, phones, family, your body, and much more, and with funny and informative illustrations, this important, playful and empowering book is a one-stop guide to creating the rules to your own life, and knowing when it's okay to say NO!

Suitable for readers aged 10+

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241634097

Publisher: Penguin Random House Children's UK

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 17 August 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Puffin

Audience: Children

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 19.0mm

Width: 137.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 433g

Pages: 240

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Children's Books Children’s & Teenage Non-Fiction Children’s, Teenage and Educational Michelle Elman Penguin Books

About the Author

Michelle Elman is a five-board accredited life coach, author, broadcaster and public speaker. Named as one of The Sun's most inspirational women in the UK, Michelle quickly established herself as the Queen of Boundaries. With a following of over 300,000, Michelle shares her experiences and expertise with an engaged audience who have followed Michelle's journey and rise in popularity with pride. Michelle is a media and broadcast favourite - celebrated by the likes of Stylist, Glamour and Grazia. ITV daytime, BBC, The Telegraph and Guardian have all shared Michelle's wisdom, and it's no surprise Michelle has gone global with love from The Today Show, Teen Vogue, E! News and MTV. How to Say No marks her debut as a children's author. However, she is the author of adult titles including The Selfish Romantic and The Joy of Being Selfish - a title that has been published into seven languages.

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