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You Are the Parent
Becoming the Calm, Confident Leader Your Child Needs
Brief Description
A revolutionary guide to parenting with confidence, clarity, and empathy. ‘Five more minutes!’ ‘One more story!’ ‘I’m not tired!’ The pressures of modern-day parenting can be relentless, leading us to over-parent, over-explain and over-negotiate with our kids. This may work at first, but it can make...
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A revolutionary guide to parenting with confidence, clarity, and empathy.
‘Five more minutes!’
‘One more story!’
‘I’m not tired!’
The pressures of modern-day parenting can be relentless, leading us to over-parent, over-explain and over-negotiate with our kids. This may work at first, but it can make it harder for children to build resilience – and exhausting for parents themselves.
Child development specialist Dr Siggie Cohen offers a more balanced approach with her groundbreaking Emotional and Behavioural Proficiency method. Based on over 35 years of supporting families on the frontline of parenting, she sets out her simple and effective tools to help you make parenting feel more grounded, intentional, and connected – even in the hardest of moments.
From managing tantrums and addressing anxieties to navigating big transitions and encouraging sleep, Dr Siggie’s wise and practical book will help you build the confidence and skills you need to raise happy, confident, and resilient children.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9780008760830
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 10 September 2026
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Thorsons
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 21.0mm
Width: 153.0mm
Height: 234.0mm
Weight: 270g
Pages: 304
About the Author
Dr. Siggie Cohen is the leading child behavioural and developmental specialist, known for her unparalleled depth of insight into the psyches of children for more than thirty-five years. Before her current work, she was a preschool teacher and professor, so has experience with thousands of children and families of all kinds. Her current Emotional/Behavioural Proficiency Method has helped countless parents, grandparents, caregivers, doctors, teachers, and families deepen their understanding of children.
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