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Welcome to Sex

Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out
Series: Welcome To You
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Welcome to Sex by Yumi Stynes and Dr. Melissa Kang is an informative guide designed to educate teenagers about sex and relationships. It offers practical advice, demystifies myths, and promotes healthy attitudes towards sexual health and consent. This book aims to empower readers with knowledge and confidence as they navigate their sexual lives.
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You might like this book if you're looking for a straightforward, approachable guide to understanding sex and relationships. It provides clear, honest information that is both educational and empowering, perfect for those seeking to learn more about their bodies and sexuality in a respectful, inclusive manner.

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This introductory guide to sex and sexuality for readers who are 14+ is age-appropriate, frank, shame-free and fun. It will help young readers navigate their developing sexual debuts with confidence!

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Every household needs a copy of Welcome to Sex, the multi-award-winning, #1 best-selling, age-appropriate guide to sex and sexuality for teens of all genders, from the authors of Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent, and Welcome to Your Boobs!

★ WINNER: 2024 Indie Book Awards Book of the Year for Young Adults ★
★ WINNER: 2024 Australian Book Industry Awards Book of the Year for Older Children ★
★ SHORTLISTED: 2024 Prime Minister's Literary Awards for Young Adult Literature ★
★ SHORTLISTED: 2024 Australian Book Industry Awards Social Impact Book of the Year ★
★ SHORTLISTED: 2024 Australian Book Industry Awards Audiobook of the Year ★
★ SHORTLISTED: 2024 BookPeople Book of the Year ★

This introductory guide by 'Dolly Doctor' Dr Melissa Kang and journalist Yumi Stynes (Ladies, We Need to Talk) is packed with honest advice on everything you need to know about sex: how to know when you're ready, reasons not to have sex, and exploring pleasure on your own – as well as frank, clear information about becoming sexually intimate with others, staying safe, and how to communicate (including talking to your parents about sex – this is really important). Plus everything you've ever wondered about wobbly starts and awkward moments!

Welcome to Sex is inclusive, intersectional, multicultural, reassuring and all about keeping sex fun, real, and shame-free. With plenty of case studies, first-person accounts, and questions from real teens – covering a wide range of gender, sexuality, and dis/ability – Welcome to Sex will help readers navigate their sexual debuts with confidence!

  • 'An informative, entertaining, and potentially life-saving book that should find a place in every home.' – Prime Minister's Literary Awards
  • ‘It’s a glorious thing that a book like this exists.’ – Pedestrian
  • 'A brilliant and accessible book … Sexual abusers and predators [rely] on shame to silence [their targets]. The more information we can give children and teenagers about their bodies, [the] better.’ – The Age

Welcome to Sex covers a wide range of age-appropriate content for teens, including:

  • What Is Sex?
  • Parents and Carers and Awkward Conversations
  • Getting Intimate With Myself
  • Orgasms
  • Labels: Sexual and Gender Identities
  • What The Outside World Is Telling Us About Sex
  • Myths About Sex
  • Reasons To Not Have Sex
  • How It Begins: Feelings, Flirting, and Falling In Love
  • What Can Actually Happen With Another Person?
  • Wobbly Starts
  • Relationships
  • Looking After Myself and My Partner
  • Pregnancy Lowdown
  • Awkward Sex Moments and Other Challenges
  • Is Something Wrong?
  • Keeping Safe

Read more in the multi-award-winning Welcome To series by Dr Melissa Kang and Yumi Stynes:

  • Welcome to Your Period: Your easy, no-silly-questions guide to handling it like a boss
  • Welcome to Your Boobs: Your easy, no-silly-questions guide to your breast friends
  • Welcome to Consent: How to say no, when to say yes and everything in between
  • Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure, and figuring it out

Series: Welcome To You

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  • Welcome to Consent
    Welcome to Consent by Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang is a must-read guidebook designed for tweens and teens of all genders, offering crucial insights into understanding and navigating consent. Written by the award-winning authors behind Welcome To Your Period and Welcome to Sex, this invaluable resource offers a comprehensive approach to a topic that affects everyone, regardless of age...
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  • Welcome to Your Boobs!
    The perfect guide to dealing with boobs, bras and more for tweens and teens! From the multi-award-winning authors of #1 bestsellers Welcome to Your Period and Welcome to Consent: adolescent health expert Dr Melissa Kang (a former Dolly Doctor) and Ladies, We Need to Talk host, Yumi Stynes. There's no getting around it – boobs can be pretty weird! Even...
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  • Welcome to Your Period
    The #1 best-selling, award-winning guide to getting your period for the first time, from 'Dolly Doctor' Dr Melissa Kang and journalist Yumi Stynes (Ladies, We Need to Talk). Getting your period for the first time can be mortifying, weird and messy – and asking questions about it can feel even worse. But it doesn’t have to be like that! This...
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    $2099
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  • Welcome to Sex
    Every household needs a copy of Welcome to Sex, the multi-award-winning, #1 best-selling, age-appropriate guide to sex and sexuality for teens of all genders, from the authors of Welcome to Your Period, Welcome to Consent, and Welcome to Your Boobs! ★ WINNER: 2024 Indie Book Awards Book of the Year for Young Adults ★ ★ WINNER: 2024 Australian Book Industry...
    Paperback
    $2399
    Elsewhere:
    $2799
    In Stock
    Ships Monday
  • Welcome to Friendship!
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    Welcome to Friendship!
    From the best-selling authors of Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Period comes this warm, funny, indispensable guide for tweens and teens on navigating the highs and lows of friendship – including making friends, keeping them and what to do when things get tricky! In this primer on all things friendship, journalist Yumi Stynes and adolescent health expert Dr...
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    Out 28 Jul 2026

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Welcome to Sex is praised for its fearless and comprehensive approach to sex education for young people, offering inclusive language and content for all sexual orientations, identities, and cultures. The book is noted for its warm, friendly, and approachable tone. It is highly recommended as an essential resource for homes with teenagers, providing better education than most traditional means. The book's accessible information is seen as vital for young people to understand their bodies and form healthy relationships, and it has garnered significant acclaim and success in sales.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781760509538

Publisher: Hardie Grant Children's Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 17 May 2023

Country: Australia

Imprint: Hardie Grant Children's Publishing

Edition: First Edition, Paperback

Illustration: Full Colour

Contributors:

  • Illustrated by Jenny Latham

Audience: Teenage

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 180.0mm

Weight: 488g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Dr Melissa Kang and Yumi Stynes are the best-selling, award-winning authors of four books together: Welcome to Your PeriodWelcome to Your Boobs, Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Sex.

Most people know Dr Melissa Kang as the longest-serving expert behind the iconic Dolly Doctor column, but she’s also a practising medical doctor for marginalised young people and has academic roles at the University of Technology Sydney and the University of Sydney. She is fifth-generation Malaysian-Chinese Anglo-Australian, which makes specialising in adolescent sexuality and sexual health all the more interesting. She continues to speak about these topics in the mainstream media.

Yumi Stynes is a second-gen Japanese-Australian TV and radio presenter who, like a lot of us, had to ‘unlearn’ period shame. She’s currently the host of Ladies, We Need to Talk, an award-winning podcast that explores all the trickiest topics and taboos about women’s health, including periods, discharge, difficult motherhood, and whether or not your vagina is weird. 

Also by Dr. Melissa Kang

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  • Welcome to Consent
    Welcome to Consent by Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang is a must-read guidebook designed for tweens and teens of all genders, offering crucial insights into understanding and navigating consent. Written by the award-winning authors behind Welcome To Your Period and Welcome to Sex, this invaluable resource offers a comprehensive approach to a topic that affects everyone, regardless of age...
    Paperback
    $2200
    Elsewhere:
    $2599
    In Stock
    Ships Monday
  • Welcome to Your Boobs!
    The perfect guide to dealing with boobs, bras and more for tweens and teens! From the multi-award-winning authors of #1 bestsellers Welcome to Your Period and Welcome to Consent: adolescent health expert Dr Melissa Kang (a former Dolly Doctor) and Ladies, We Need to Talk host, Yumi Stynes. There's no getting around it – boobs can be pretty weird! Even...
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    $2200
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  • Welcome to Your Period
    The #1 best-selling, award-winning guide to getting your period for the first time, from 'Dolly Doctor' Dr Melissa Kang and journalist Yumi Stynes (Ladies, We Need to Talk). Getting your period for the first time can be mortifying, weird and messy – and asking questions about it can feel even worse. But it doesn’t have to be like that! This...
    Paperback
    $2099
    Elsewhere:
    $2599
    In Stock
    Ships Monday
  • Welcome to Friendship!
    Pre-order
    Welcome to Friendship!
    From the best-selling authors of Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Period comes this warm, funny, indispensable guide for tweens and teens on navigating the highs and lows of friendship – including making friends, keeping them and what to do when things get tricky! In this primer on all things friendship, journalist Yumi Stynes and adolescent health expert Dr...
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    $2399
    Elsewhere:
    $2799
    Pre-order
    Out 28 Jul 2026

Also by Yumi Stynes

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  • Welcome to Consent
    Welcome to Consent by Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang is a must-read guidebook designed for tweens and teens of all genders, offering crucial insights into understanding and navigating consent. Written by the award-winning authors behind Welcome To Your Period and Welcome to Sex, this invaluable resource offers a comprehensive approach to a topic that affects everyone, regardless of age...
    Paperback
    $2200
    Elsewhere:
    $2599
    In Stock
    Ships Monday
  • Welcome to Your Boobs!
    The perfect guide to dealing with boobs, bras and more for tweens and teens! From the multi-award-winning authors of #1 bestsellers Welcome to Your Period and Welcome to Consent: adolescent health expert Dr Melissa Kang (a former Dolly Doctor) and Ladies, We Need to Talk host, Yumi Stynes. There's no getting around it – boobs can be pretty weird! Even...
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  • The Food Fix
    The Food Fix is co-authored by Yumi Stynes, who has a background in cooking and broadcasting, and Simon Davis, an experienced editor of numerous cookbooks in the food publishing industry. The two met while working on one of Yumi's cookbooks and discovered a shared passion for tackling the ongoing challenge of feeding a large family (collectively, they have many children)....
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  • Welcome to Your Period
    The #1 best-selling, award-winning guide to getting your period for the first time, from 'Dolly Doctor' Dr Melissa Kang and journalist Yumi Stynes (Ladies, We Need to Talk). Getting your period for the first time can be mortifying, weird and messy – and asking questions about it can feel even worse. But it doesn’t have to be like that! This...
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    $2099
    Elsewhere:
    $2599
    In Stock
    Ships Monday
  • Welcome to Friendship!
    Pre-order
    Welcome to Friendship!
    From the best-selling authors of Welcome to Consent and Welcome to Your Period comes this warm, funny, indispensable guide for tweens and teens on navigating the highs and lows of friendship – including making friends, keeping them and what to do when things get tricky! In this primer on all things friendship, journalist Yumi Stynes and adolescent health expert Dr...
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    $2399
    Elsewhere:
    $2799
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    Out 28 Jul 2026

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