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We Don't Make Ourselves Smaller Here

Reclaiming all that's rightfully ours
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You deserve to exist as your biggest, unapologetic and most whole self. You always have done. Bestselling author Megan Jayne Crabbe lays bare all the ways we shrink ourselves in today's world, and how to break free. From body ideals to bad break-ups, sexual shame to... Read More
Format: Paperback / softback
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An unapologetic, empowering roadmap for reclaiming our identities as women and becoming whole once more, by bestselling author, online maverick and host, Megan Jayne Crabbe.

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You deserve to exist as your biggest, unapologetic and most whole self. You always have done.

Bestselling author Megan Jayne Crabbe lays bare all the ways we shrink ourselves in today's world, and how to break free.

From body ideals to bad break-ups, sexual shame to toxic productivity, Megan interrogates how cultural and internal narratives diminish us and explores what we can do to ditch social pressures and live life as our fullest and boldest selves.

Candid, empowering and insightful, We Don't Make Ourselves Smaller Here is a powerful rallying cry for embracing authenticity in all areas of our lives. It is an invitation to revisit the places where parts of us were lost, taken or given away, and to reclaim them.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781399738071

Publisher: Hodder & Stoughton

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 26 June 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Hodder Catalyst

Illustration: decorative line illustrations

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 288

About the Author

London-based Megan Jayne Crabbe is best known for changing the narrative of how women feel about their bodies - she built her enormous platform (1M+) by creating empowering content on the topics of body positivity, mental health, feminism and beyond.

In 2017 Megan released her No.1 bestselling book, Body Positive Power, a manifesto on all the ways we've been taught to hate our bodies, and how we can accept them instead. With her second book, Megan will expand from reclaiming the body to reclaiming the whole self.

Megan has worked with BBC, The Brits, MTV and Channel 4, been featured on This Morning and Radio One and is a keynote speaker for the biggest brands and media outlets across the globe.

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