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Untangled

Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood
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Untangled by Lisa Damour delves into the seven developmental transitions girls undergo in adolescence. The book provides insights for parents to understand their daughters' journeys and offers guidance on how to support them effectively through these changes. With practical advice and relatable anecdotes, it aims to foster stronger parent-daughter relationships during this critical period.
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You might enjoy this book if you're navigating the challenges of raising a teenage daughter and are looking for insight into the developmental transitions she undergoes. With a focus on understanding the emotional and psychological stages of adolescence, it provides practical advice that can strengthen the parent-teen relationship.

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Leading clinical psychologist Lisa Damour identifies the seven key phases marking the journey from girlhood to womanhood, and offers practical advice for those raising teenage girls.

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We expect an enormous amount from our teenage girls in a world where they are bombarded with messages about how they should look, behave, succeed. Yet we also speak as though adolescence is a nightmare rollercoaster ride for both parent and child, to be endured rather than enjoyed.

In Untangled, world authority and clinical psychologist Lisa Damour provides an accessible, detailed, comprehensive guide to parenting teenage girls. She believes there is a predictable blueprint for how girls grow; seven easily recognisable 'strands' of transition from childhood through adolescence and on to adulthood. Girls naturally develop at different rates, typically on more than one front, and the transition will be unique to every girl.

Each chapter describes a phase, such as 'contending with adult authority' and 'entering the romantic world', with hints and tips for parents and daughters, and a 'when to worry' section. Damour writes sympathetically and clearly, providing a practical and helpful guide for any parent, and for teenage girls too.

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Untangled by Lisa Damour is highly praised for its relatable and practical approach to parenting adolescent girls. The Washington Post highlights it as an engaging and comforting read for parents. The Boston Globe views it as an essential resource for navigating the challenging teenage years, while Publishers Weekly commends it for offering fresh insights alongside established classics in parenting literature.

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ISBN: 9781782395560

Publisher: Atlantic Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 05 January 2017

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Atlantic Books

Edition: Main

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 317g

Pages: 352

About the Author

After graduating with honours from Yale University, Lisa Damour received her doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Michigan. She has worked for the Yale Child Study Centre and directs the Centre for Research on Girls at Laurel School, maintains a private psychotherapy practice, consults and speaks nationally, is a faculty associate of the Schubert Centre for Child Studies and is a clinical instructor at Case Western Reserve University.

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