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Under Pressure

Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls
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Under Pressure by clinical psychologist Lisa Damour explores the sharp rise in anxiety among girls since the turn of the century. Combining engaging anecdotes with scientific insights, Damour delves into the stresses girls face—from parental expectations and academic pressures to social anxieties and social media influences. The book offers practical guidance to parents and caregivers on how to protect girls from the damaging effects of toxic stress in today's culture.
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This book is ideal for parents, caregivers, educators, and anyone interested in supporting the mental health and well-being of girls and young women.

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An urgently needed guide to the alarming rate of psychological stress experienced by girls from the age of ten through to adulthood, from the New York Times bestselling author of Untangled .

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Though anxiety has risen among young people overall, recent research studies confirm that it has skyrocketed in girls since the turn of the century. So what's to blame? And how can we help these girls?

In the same engaging, anecdotal style and reassuring tone that won over thousands of readers of her first book, Untangled, clinical psychologist Lisa Damour starts by examining the science of stress and anxiety. She then turns to the many facets of girls' lives where stress hits them hard: the parental expectations they face at home, pressures at school, social anxiety among their peers, and on social media. Exploring the multiple layers of girls' lives, Damour shows us the critical steps we can take to shield them from the toxic stress to which both our culture and also we, as their caregivers, subject them.

Readers familiar with Damour from Untangled or from her New York Times journalism will be drawn to this important new contribution to understanding and supporting today's girls – and tomorrow's young women.

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ISBN: 9781786493972

Publisher: Atlantic Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 04 June 2020

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Atlantic Books

Edition: Main

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 23.0mm

Width: 131.0mm

Height: 200.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 288

About the Author

After graduating with honours from Yale University, Lisa Damour received her doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Michigan. Based in the US, she has worked for the Yale Child Study Centre and directs the Centre of Research on Girls at Laurel School, maintains a private psychotherapy practice, consults and speaks nationally, is a faculty associate of the Schubert Centre for Child Studies and is a clinical instructor at Case Western Reserve University.

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