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The Dance of Anger

A Womanโ€™s Guide to Changing the Pattern of Intimate Relationships
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The Dance of Anger by Harriet G. Lerner, Ph.D., is a guide that explores the complexities of anger in women and offers strategies for using it as a constructive force. Delving into psychological insights, it provides guidance on how to understand, manage, and express anger to improve relationships and foster growth. Through practical advice and relatable examples, it empowers readers to transform anger from a destructive emotion into a powerful tool for change.
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This book may appeal to you if you're interested in understanding and transforming anger into a constructive force. It offers insights into the dynamics of interpersonal relationships and provides tools for maintaining healthy boundaries while expressing emotions effectively. Ideal for those exploring personal growth and relationship enhancement.

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Do you find yourself always fighting with your nearest and dearest, distancing yourself through silence, or blaming others for the failure of your relationships?

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For many women, anger is a destructive force that perpetuates all the harmful dynamics of intimate relationships. In this text, feminist psychotherapist Harriet G. Lerner shows how all women, regardless of age, background, or experience, can turn anger into a constructive force.

Focusing largely on the family, the book provides the reader with insights and practical skills to stop behaving in old, predictable ways and to begin using anger to establish a more positive approach to significant relationships.

The Dance of Anger is a guide to transforming one of the most powerful emotions into a tool for change and personal growth.

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The Dance of Anger by Harriet G. Lerner is praised for offering a thoughtful and empathetic analysis of women's anger and relationships. It is considered inspirational and provides readers with fresh perspectives on addressing personal challenges, making it a worthwhile investment for those seeking to understand and manage emotions more effectively.

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ISBN: 9780722536230

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 March 1999

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Element Books

Illustration: (12 b/w line illustrations)

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 16.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 190g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Harriet Lerner is an internationally acclaimed feminist psychotherapist and best-selling author of The Dance of Anger, The Dance of Intimacy and The Dance of Deception; her books have sold over 3 million copies worldwide. She trained at the Menninger Foundation in Topeka, a world renowned psychiatric and behavioural hospital, before setting up in private practice in Topeka, Kansas. In addition to her practice and writing, she lectures and gives workshops.

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