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The Archaeology of Loss
Life, love and the art of dying
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This heartfelt memoir will resonate with readers interested in personal stories of loss, caregiving, and resilience, as well as those drawn to thoughtful reflections on death and grief through both a scholarly and emotional lens.
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My whole adult life, I have made a study of death.
Sarah Tarlow has devoted her working life to the study of death, burial practices, and the rituals of grief.
She is also a widow.
Shortly after her appointment as the Chair of Archaeology at the University of Leicester, her partner Mark began to suffer from a bitter, drawn-out, and undiagnosed illness, leaving him unable to care for himself. Eventually, two weeks after they married, Mark waits for Sarah and their children to leave the house, and ends his own life in an extraordinary act of courage and love.
Although Sarah is considered an expert in the history and archaeology of death, she will find that nothing could have prepared her for the reality of illness, care-giving, and losing someone you love.
A fiercely honest, intimate, and unique blend of the professional and the personal, The Archaeology of Loss describes a universal experience with an unflinching and singular gaze. Told with humour, intelligence, and urgency, this is an unforgettable piece of writing.
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Extraordinary, unflinching, wonderful, moving – Nina Stibbe
Bracingly candid, this book digs away at our collective fantasy about dying and caregiving, showing our often flawed humanity with addictively unsentimental prose. – The Times
Scrupulously honest and raw, courageous, it offers tantalising glimpses of archaeology throughout a personal, sad journey. – Times Literary Supplement
Direct, honest and deeply compassionate, it is a companion for those facing loss and uncertainty, while celebrating the breadth of love. – Octavia Bright
Book Details
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ISBN: 9781529099539
Publisher: Pan Macmillan
Format: Hardback
Date Published: 20 April 2023
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Picador
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 32.0mm
Width: 144.0mm
Height: 223.0mm
Weight: 392g
Pages: 288
About the Author
Sarah Tarlow is a British archaeologist and academic. As professor of historical archaeology at the University of Leicester, Sarah is best known for her work on the archaeology of death and burial. She has written or edited ten academic books about archaeology and history. This is her first memoir.
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