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Tastes Like War

A Memoir
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Tastes Like War is a poignant memoir by Grace M. Cho that intertwines food, family history, and identity against the backdrop of Cold War America. As the daughter of a white American merchant marine and his Korean bar hostess wife, Grace grew up amidst xenophobia and cultural tension. The narrative explores her mother’s lifelong struggle with schizophrenia and Grace’s journey to understand her mother’s past by cooking dishes from their childhoods, creating a bridge between memory and presence.
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A powerful account of a Korean American daughter's exploration of food and family history to understand her mother's schizophrenia.

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Finalist for the 2021 National Book Award for Nonfiction

Winner of the 2022 Asian/Pacific American Award in Literature

A TIME and NPR Best Book of the Year in 2021

This evocative memoir of food and family history is "somehow both mouthwatering and heartbreaking... [and] a potent personal history" (Shelf Awareness).

Grace M. Cho grew up as the daughter of a white American merchant marine and the Korean bar hostess he met abroad. They were one of few immigrants in a xenophobic small town during the Cold War, where identity was politicised by everyday details—language, cultural references, memories, and food. When Grace was fifteen, her dynamic mother experienced the onset of schizophrenia, a condition that would continue and evolve for the rest of her life.

Part food memoir, part sociological investigation, Tastes Like War is a hybrid text about a daughter's search through intimate and global history for the roots of her mother's schizophrenia. In her mother's final years, Grace learned to cook dishes from her parent's childhood in order to invite the past into the present, and to hold space for her mother's multiple voices at the table. Through careful listening over these shared meals, Grace discovered not only the things that broke the brilliant, complicated woman who raised her—but also the things that kept her alive.

"An exquisite commemoration and a potent reclamation." - Booklist (starred review)

"A wrenching, powerful account of the long-term effects of the immigrant experience." - Kirkus Reviews

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781952177941

Publisher: Feminist Press at The City University of New York

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 July 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: Feminist Press at The City University of New York

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 203.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 296

About the Author

Grace M. Cho is the author ofTastes Like War, a 2021 National Book Awards finalist, andHaunting the Korean Diaspora: Shame, Secrecy, and the Forgotten War, which received a 2010 book award from the American Sociological Association. Her writings have appeared in journals such as theNew Inquiry,Poem Memoir Story,Contexts,Gastronomica,Feminist Studies,WSQ, andQualitative Inquiry. She is associate professor of sociology and anthropology at the College of Staten Island, CUNY.

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