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Secure Love
Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime
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Rooted in attachment theory and couples' therapy, Julie Menanno builds on her indispensable Instagram account @thesecurerelationship to reveal how lasting bonds are both created and sustained 'Incredibly wise . . . No romantic partnership should be without it' Jen Sincero, bestselling author of You Are a...
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Rooted in attachment theory and couples' therapy, Julie Menanno builds on her indispensable Instagram account @thesecurerelationship to reveal how lasting bonds are both created and sustained
'Incredibly wise . . . No romantic partnership should be without it' Jen Sincero, bestselling author of You Are a Badass
What does a healthy relationship look like?
A good question, in theory, but expert couple's therapist Julie Menanno wants you to ask a slightly different one- what does a securely attached relationship feel like?
Moving from the way things look to others to the way they feel, this is a ground-breaking guide to secure attachment in adult relationships. Full of expert advice, Secure Love helps you explore how to increase your capacity for true intimacy. Designed to help you find and sustain love, this book will teach you how to dig into your childhood attachments, label your needs, stay connected during conflict and communicate from a place of vulnerability to build a relationship that lasts a lifetime.
'With Secure Love, you'll be armed with eternal wisdom for strengthening your relationship. A must-read for any couple' Dr Sue Johnson, bestselling author of Hold Me Tight
'Accessible and meaningful for anyone who wants to improve the atmosphere of their couple relationship and find more productive ways to communicate' Joanna Harrison, author of Five Arguments All Couples (Need to) Have
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9781804942536
Publisher: Cornerstone
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 22 January 2026
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Penguin (Cornerstone)
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 23.0mm
Width: 131.0mm
Height: 199.0mm
Weight: 240g
Pages: 336
About the Author
Julie Menanno (MA, LMFT, LCPC) is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples. She also provides insight and advice for couples at @TheSecureRelationship on Instagram, with over one million followers. She founded and runs the Bozeman Therapy & Counseling clinic, and The Secure Relationship Coaching. She lives in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband and six children.
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