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Punishment-Free Parenting

The Brain-Based Way to Raise Kids Without Raising Your Voice
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A no-judgment parenting guide that helps you better understand your own emotions as well as your children's needs without resorting to threats or punishment—from a regular dad who made it his mission to share what he learned from his hard-won experiences and personal research. A no-judgment,... Read More
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A no-judgment parenting guide that helps you better understand your own emotions as well as your children's needs without resorting to threats or punishment—from a regular dad who made it his mission to share what he learned from his hard-won experiences and personal research.

A no-judgment, simple-to-follow, step-by-step parenting guide to help you manage your emotions, meet your child's needs with empathy, and create a calmer home—without ever resorting to threats or punishment.

Every parent has had that painful moment they realise there must be a better way to raise kids than the old-school yelling, threats, bribes, and punishment way.

For Jon Fogel, that realisation set him on a path towards wholeness—understanding himself, learning about the brain, and empowering parents to raise kids who live physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy lives. In just a few short years, he became an inspiration to more than a million people around the world who were also striving to do better and become the best parents they can be.

Now, with Punishment-Free Parenting, Fogel—parenting educator, pastor, and father of four—brings to parents the hard-won wisdom from his research and work as a parenting coach. With memorable stories, advice, and compassionate insight, he offers mums and dads a clear path to their own wholeness as parents—from learning to recognise and name their own emotional triggers to responding with a deeper awareness of their children's developmental processes. What emerges is a collaborative partnership with children—free from the drama and pain of punishment.

In pages packed with the most helpful research findings from child developmental psychology, neurology, and paediatric medicine, readers will meet other parents just like them and children just like their own who have learned to use the tools and tips that Fogel provides. Punishment-Free Parenting is the simple, accessible, no-judgment book for parents who want the support and guidance of a dad just like them.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780593735466

Publisher: Random House USA Inc

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 28 January 2025

Country: United States

Imprint: Convergent

Contributors:

  • Foreword by Tina Payne Bryson

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 145.0mm

Height: 217.0mm

Weight: 335g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Jon Fogel is a husband, a father of four beautiful children, and a parenting educator. His goal is to teach how to parent more effectively-with less stress and more success. In his teaching, Jon combines modern neuroscience, developmental psychology, counseling, and positive, gentle parenting wisdom, distilling the science into terms every parent can understand. Fogel is the senior pastor at Hope Covenant Church in Orland Park, Illinois. Previously, he served as a hospital chaplain in the greater Chicago area. He holds a Master of Divinity degree from North Park Theological Seminary.

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