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Propulsive and calmly devastating ... Setterwall is in full command MARINA KEMP, author of The Unwilding Quietly affecting DAILY MAIL Everything will be fine. That is what Mary and John promise when they tell their two children that they are getting a divorce. But while the... Read More
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From beloved author, Carolina Setterwall, a refreshingly unsentimental novel about the dissolution of a marriage, and what it means to be a ‘good’ mother, translated by International Booker-longlisted translator Deborah Bragan-Turner

From beloved author, Carolina Setterwall, a refreshingly unsentimental novel about the dissolution of a marriage, and what it means to be a ‘good’ mother, translated by International Booker-longlisted translator Deborah Bragan-Turner

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Propulsive and calmly devastating ... Setterwall is in full command MARINA KEMP, author of The Unwilding

Quietly affecting DAILY MAIL

Everything will be fine. That is what Mary and John promise when they tell their two children that they are getting a divorce. But while the end of their marriage offers them both freedom from their dissatisfaction, it brings to the fore the pain and resentments that have always percolated through their relationship and throws into stark relief their shortcomings as partners and as parents.

While John finds a second chance at love – still retaining the support of their children – Mary is forced to contend with the fact that, having always yearned for the approval of others, she is thoroughly unprepared for the waves of change that are coming to reshape her life.

Told from the alternating perspectives of Mary and John as they navigate life in the wake of their separation, Opt Out is an astute examination of the constrictive power of gender roles, and a reckoning with our impossibly idealised conceptions of motherhood. Smart and intimate, it explores the difficulties of breaking away from the constraints of one life in pursuit of another.

Praise for Carolina Setterwall and Let’s Hope for the Best

'I've read it twice now ... Utterly compulsive' Marian Keyes

'I think the world should read it' Lisa Taddeo

'Brutally candid … The most compelling book I've read in years' The Times

'It's impossible not to draw comparisons with Karl Ove Knausgaard' Evening Standard

'Every spare, controlled sentence has the ring of truth … Gripping' Daily Mail

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781526608086

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 27 August 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Contributors:

  • Translated by Deborah Bragan-Turner

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 272g

Pages: 384

About the Author

Carolina Setterwall was born in Sala, Sweden, and is the author of Let’s Hope for the Best. After studying Media and Communication in Uppsala, Stockholm, and London she has worked within the music and publishing industries as an editor and writer. Setterwall lives in Stockholm with her son.

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