Loving Someone Who Has Sexual Trauma
The book covers how to recognise attachment styles, soothe conflicts, and develop emotional and physical bonding, helping couples move beyond fear and disconnection to a loving, connected partnership.
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Loving Someone Who Has Sexual Trauma
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In the book, readers will learn powerful, trauma-informed techniques to help them understand the full impact of their partnerโs past experience, as well as strategies to increase feelings of safety and connection, and ultimately improve their relationship in the here and now.
Create a supportive and secure relationship with a partner who has experienced sexual trauma.
If your partner is a survivor of sexual trauma, they may experience anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, or feel triggered by intimate situations. And you may feel confused, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to support them. This gentle guide will give you the tools you need to help nurture intimacy and trust, and cultivate a secure relationship.
In Loving Someone Who Has Sexual Trauma, marriage, family, and sex therapist Megan Lara Negendank offers self-compassion and attachment-based communication skills to support your partner. Youโll also learn powerful, trauma-informed techniques and strategies to help you understand the full impact of your partnerโs past experience, increase feelings of safety and connection, and ultimately improve your relationship in the here and now.
In this gentle guide, youโll discover:
- Communication skills to help promote trust
- How to avoid or deescalate from common triggers
- How to identify attachment styles and soothe conflict patterns
- Emotional and physical bonding skills
If youโre ready to move beyond fear, anger, and disconnection to a thriving intimate relationship where you both can feel loved, safe, and connected, this book can help you get started.
Book Hero Magic summarised reviews for this book. While it's new and still learning, it may not be perfect - your feedback is welcome! HOW HAS THIS BEEN REVIEWED?
Natasha Helfer, LCMFT, CST-S praises the book as a pivotal resource for partners, vital in reducing relationship distress and enhancing intimacy and pleasure. Therapist Maegan Tanner, MA, AMFT, APCC, commends it as a realistic, compassionate, and practical guide she eagerly recommends to clients navigating healing journeys.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9781648481574
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 30 November 2023
Country: United States
Imprint: New Harbinger Publications
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 12.0mm
Width: 150.0mm
Height: 226.0mm
Weight: 280g
Pages: 200
About the Author
Megan Lara Negendank, LMFT, CST, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and a certified sex therapist. She is founder of Love Heal Grow, a psychotherapy center in Northern California where she specializes in trauma-informed, relationship-focused psychotherapy for survivors of trauma and their partners. She has been featured as a relationship expert on PBS, NPR, and in Sacramento Magazine.
Foreword writer Stephanie Buehler, PsyD, CST-S, is a licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist and supervisor, and fellow of the International Society for the Study of Womenโs Sexual Health. She is author of What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex.
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