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Lonely AF Workbook

The No-Judgment Guide to Feeling Less Alone
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Essential companion workbook to Lonely AF, helping you open the truth and heal from your loneliness Lonely AF: A Therapist’s No-BS Guide to Feeling Less Alone cracks open the truth about your loneliness—and this handbook helps you on your journey to building authentic connections. Within these... Read More
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Essential companion workbook to Lonely AF, helping you open the truth and heal from your loneliness

Lonely AF: A Therapist’s No-BS Guide to Feeling Less Alone cracks open the truth about your loneliness—and this handbook helps you on your journey to building authentic connections. Within these pages, insight turns into action, awareness turns into embodiment, and healing becomes something you actually feel—not just something you read about. This workbook steps through the HEART Method to better manage loneliness—not as a passive reader, but as an active participant in your own healing. You write. You reflect. You pause. You get honest. You dig into your emotional landscape with tools, practices, and prompts that hold space for both your pain and your power.

In this book, readers will discover:

  • What you’ve been hiding, and the patterns you inherited
  • The stories you've been living, and whether they still serve you
  • Tools to regulate your nervous system, so that you can safely connect with parts of you that have been waiting to be seen and heard
  • The real, raw, and often overwhelming nature of this type of work, and how to recognize and pause when you need to

Take a breath. Hold it for a second. Now let it out slowly. You’re here. That matters. You matter. In the pages of this workbook, let’s begin—together.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781394382569

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 05 May 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: Jossey-Bass Inc.,U.S.

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Weight: 250g

Pages: 176

About the Author

Sylvia Kalicinski, PhD, LMFT, is a therapist, speaker, and host of The Dr. Sylvia K Show podcast. A former Lead Clinician at Mount Sinai Medical Center, she has over twenty-one years of experience working with trauma, emotional isolation, and relational wounds. With advanced training at the C.G. Jung Institute of Los Angeles, certified in MBSR and EMDR, and holding a PhD in Family Therapy, she brings a warm, grounded, no-BS approach to reframing and healing loneliness.

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