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How to Feel Better

A Guide to Navigating the Ebb and Flow of Life
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How to Feel Better by bestselling author Cathy Rentzenbrink offers tender, warm guidance on navigating life's challenges. Drawing on her personal experiences, Cathy shares practical advice and comforting reflections, including her etiquette for receiving bad news and heartfelt wisdom for her son. This revised edition includes a new introduction and an inspiring addendum with advice from other authors on finding solace and strength amid adversity.
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A wise, warm and uplifting guide to navigating anything life might throw at you from the Sunday TImes bestselling author of The Last Act of Love, Cathy Rentzenbrink.

A wise, warm and uplifting guide to navigating anything life might throw at you from the Sunday TImes bestselling author of The Last Act of Love, Cathy Rentzenbrink.

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'A tender appreciation of life's beauty' Matt Haig, The Guardian

In How to Feel Better, bestselling author Cathy Rentzenbrink shares the advice that has seen her through life's ups and downs. From her etiquette for bad news to the words of wisdom she would like to pass onto her son, How to Feel Better is full of warm, gentle guidance and comfort for when you need it most.

Previously published as A Manual for Heartache, this revised edition contains a new introduction from Cathy and an inspiring addendum of advice from other authors on what they do to feel better, whatever the world throws their way.

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The Sunday Times calls it 'poignant . . . short on self-pity, but big on compassion and supremely big-hearted,' describing it as 'a generous and important addition to therapeutic memoirs.' Laura Barnett praises it as 'the perfect choice for anyone keen to make sense of any recent emotional upheaval.' Matt Haig of The Guardian highlights it as 'a tender appreciation of life’s beauty.'

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781035014255

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 March 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bluebird

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 14.0mm

Width: 131.0mm

Height: 199.0mm

Weight: 154g

Pages: 208

About the Author

Cathy Rentzenbrink is the author of the Sunday Times bestseller The Last Act of Love, How to Feel Better (A Manual for Heartache), Dear Reader: The Comfort and Joy of Books, Write It All Down and Everyone Is Still Alive. It took her twenty years to wrestle her own life story on the page and she loves to use what she has learnt about the profound nature of writing the self in the service of others. Cathy has taught for Arvon, Curtis Brown Creative, at Falmouth University and at festivals and in prisons, and welcomes anyone, no matter what their experience, education, background or story. She believes that everyone's life would be improved by picking up a pen and is at her happiest when encouraging her students to have the courage to delve into themselves and see the magic that will start to happen on the page.

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