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Helping Grieving People - When Tears Are Not Enough

A Handbook for Care Providers
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Helping Grieving People - When Tears Are Not Enough is a practical handbook guiding care providers through the complex process of supporting individuals facing death, illness, and other losses. Author J. Shep Jeffreys explores grief across diverse relationships and cultural contexts, offering a threefold approach: the Heart, encouraging self-awareness and empathy; the Head, deepening understanding of grief dynamics; and the Hands, focusing on practical caregiving interventions. This updated edition features new research and perspectives, making it an essential resource for both academic study and professional development.
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This book is well suited for healthcare professionals, counsellors, social workers, and anyone involved in grief support and bereavement care. It is also ideal for students in related academic courses and for training staff who provide emotional assistance to those enduring loss.

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Helping Grieving People – When Tears Are Not Enough is a handbook for care providers who provide service, support and counseling to those grieving death, illness, and other losses.

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Helping Grieving People -- When Tears Are Not Enough is a handbook for care providers who offer service, support, and counselling to those grieving death, illness, and other losses. This book also serves as an excellent text for academic courses and staff development training.

The author discusses grief as it affects various relationships and explores different intervention and support strategies, always being mindful of individual and cultural differences in the expression and treatment of grief. Jeffreys has developed a practical approach to preparing grief care providers through three basic tracks:

Heart – This track calls for self-discovery, encouraging individuals to free themselves from accumulated loss in order to focus all attention on the griever.

Head – This track emphasises understanding the complex and dynamic phenomena of human grief.

Hands – This track stresses the caregiver's actual intervention, addressing both lay and professional levels of skill, and outlining the various approaches for healing available.

Accompanying these motifs, the handbook discusses the social and cultural contexts of grief as applied to various populations of grievers, as well as the underlying psychological basis of human grief. Throughout the book, Jeffreys presents the role of the caregiver as an Exquisite Witness to the journey of grief and pain experienced by bereaved families and friends, as well as the path taken by dying persons and their families.

The second edition of Helping Grieving People remains faithful to the approach well received in the original volume. It includes updated research findings and addresses new information and developments in the field of loss, grief, and bereavement.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780415877015

Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 26 April 2011

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Routledge

Edition: 2nd edition

Illustration: 3 Tables, black and white; 2 Line drawings, black and white; 1 Illustrations, black and white

Audience: Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 600g

Pages: 422

About the Author

J. Shep Jeffreys, Ed.D., F.T., is a licensed psychologist specializing in grief, loss, and end-of-life concerns and is a Fellow in Thanatology (Association for Death Education and Counseling). In addition to maintaining a private practice, Jeffreys is assistant professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, and affiliate assistant professor of pastoral counseling, Loyola University Maryland. He is a consultant to hospices, hospitals, nursing homes, educational institutions, and corporations. He has served as trainer and workshop leader with Elisabeth Kubler-Ross in the United States, Canada, and overseas, and as consulting psychologist for the Johns Hopkins AIDS Service. His column, "Grief Psychologist’s Corner" is a regular feature in Living with Loss Magazine. The author can be found on the web at www.GriefCareProvider.com.

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