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He'll Be OK

Growing Gorgeous Boys Into Good Men 10th Anniversary Edition
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He'll Be OK by Celia Lashlie dives deep into the perplexing and often misunderstood world of boys and young men. This tenth anniversary edition offers a fresh perspective with a new foreword, introduction, and a heartfelt tribute to the late author. Imagine a world where the... Read More
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He'll Be OK by Celia Lashlie dives deep into the perplexing and often misunderstood world of boys and young men. This tenth anniversary edition offers a fresh perspective with a new foreword, introduction, and a heartfelt tribute to the late author.

Imagine a world where the journey from boyhood to manhood is marked not just by the usual trials of adolescence but also by a constant grappling with societal expectations, pressures, and temptations. With her extensive experience working in the prison service and her personal journey of raising a son single-handedly, Celia Lashlie provides an unparalleled and insightful guide for parents navigating these challenges. Lashlie's role in the Good Man Project, where she engaged with 180 classes of boys, uncovered invaluable truths about what boys need to flourish and make wise choices.

Her findings and practical advice are candidly shared in this bestselling book, aiming to help parents—especially mothers—understand their sons better. With her characteristic honesty and no-nonsense approach, Lashlie offers strategies and reassurance for raising sons who are not only safe and healthy but also articulate and compassionate. The book tackles essential questions: How can parents ensure their boys learn the right lessons? How can they steer clear of danger and find a meaningful path?

He'll Be OK is not just a parenting manual; it's a cultural critique and a fervent call to action for more understanding and support for young men. Lashlie's unique perspective blends her professional insights from the criminal justice system with personal anecdotes, making for a compelling read.

This newly revised edition retains the core messages of the original while offering contemporary context, ensuring its relevance for today's readers.

"Celia did an enormous amount of work, particularly standing up for at-risk young people, and she made an enormous contribution." - New Zealand Prime Minister John Key

Engage with this transformative guide and discover how to better communicate with, support, and understand the boys in your life, ensuring that He'll Be OK.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781775540809

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers (New Zealand)

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 24 August 2015

Country: New Zealand

Imprint: HarperCollins Publishers (New Zealand)

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 154.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 350g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Bestselling author of The Journey to Prison and He’ll Be OK, Celia has been a prison officer and prison manager, and has a degree in anthropology and Maori. Mother, Nana, sought-after speaker and social commentator, she now works in a freelance capacity and lives in Wellington.www.celialashlie.co.nz

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