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Friends

Understanding the Power of our Most Important Relationships
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Friends by Robin Dunbar delves into the science and psychology behind why friendships matter and how they shape our lives. The book explores the cognitive and evolutionary aspects underpinning social bonds, revealing the dynamics and limits within our social circles. It combines philosophical insights with scientific research to investigate the complexities of human relationships.
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You might enjoy this book if you're intrigued by the science behind social connections and want to explore the psychological and evolutionary aspects of friendships. It offers insightful perspectives on how and why we form bonds with others, blending philosophy and psychology in an engaging manner.

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The definitive book on how and why we make friends

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‘Fascinating... In essence, the number and quality of our friendships may have a bigger influence on our happiness, health and mortality risk than anything else in life save for giving up smoking’ Guardian, Book of the Day

Friends matter to us, and they matter more than we think. The single most surprising fact to emerge out of the medical literature over the last decade or so has been that the number and quality of the friendships we have has a bigger influence on our happiness, health and even mortality risk than anything else except giving up smoking.

Robin Dunbar is the world-renowned psychologist and author who famously discovered Dunbar's number: how our capacity for friendship is limited to around 150 people. In Friends, he looks at friendship in the round, at the way different types of friendship and family relationships intersect, and at the complex of psychological and behavioural mechanisms that underpin friendships and make them possible - and just how complicated the business of making and keeping friends actually is.

Mixing insights from scientific research with first person experiences and culture, Friends explores and integrates knowledge from disciplines ranging from psychology and anthropology to neuroscience and genetics in a single magical weave that allows us to peer into the incredible complexity of the social world in which we are all so deeply embedded.

Working at the coalface of the subject at both research and personal levels, Robin Dunbar has written the definitive book on how and why we are friends.

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Friends by Robin Dunbar examines the fundamental role friendships play in our lives, highlighting their evolutionary importance and how they contribute to personal fulfilment and social cohesion. Recognised for its engaging exploration of human connection, the book provides insights into the profound influence of friendships on our happiness and survival.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780349143576

Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 June 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Abacus

Audience: Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 32.0mm

Width: 126.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 337g

Pages: 432

About the Author

Robin Dunbar is an evolutionary psychologist and former director of the Institute of Cognitive and Evolutionary Anthropology in the Department of Experimental Psychology at Oxford University. His acclaimed books include How Many Friends Does One Person Need? and Grooming, Gossip and the Evolution of Language, described by Malcolm Gladwell as "a marvellous work of popular science."

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