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Finding Your Person: Even If It's You

Relationship Advice from TikTok's Big Sister
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Finding Your Person: Even If It's You offers heartfelt guidance on navigating modern relationships and self-connection. Anne Peralta shares honest advice on everything from flirting and trust to recognising when to let go or embrace change. Blending practical tips with reflections on growth, this book supports readers through the complexities of love, friendship, and finding fulfillment within themselves.
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Ideal for anyone seeking insight into friendships, romance, and self-acceptance, especially those navigating today's evolving dating culture.

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Enjoy vital and honest advice on dating and romance with this one-of-a-kind guide to relationships from TikTok's favourite big sister, @annnexmp.

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Everyone is looking for true connection in their day-to-day lives, whether to friends, romantic partners, or to themselves. In a world where dating customs are updating faster than dating apps, sound advice on matters of the heart has never been more necessary... or hard to find. That is, until @annnexmp volunteered herself as TikTok's big sister — as a fellow journeywoman, a no-bullshit sounding board, and a shoulder to lean on for everyone else trying to make sense of it all, covering topics like:

  • Flirting with someone when you're nervous.
  • Choosing which friends you can really trust with your innermost self.
  • Wanting someone who doesn't want you.
  • Knowing if you even want to be in a relationship.
  • Being enough.
  • How much is too much compromise.
  • The importance of accountability.

Part practical advice, part meditation on change and growth, Finding Your Person: Even If It's You is the perfect pick-me-up when you need a dose of perspective on life and relationships. Whether you're dealing with losing someone that wasn't really yours in the first place, growing apart from someone you grew up with, sensing when someone is going to break up with you and dealing with the aftermath, or determining whether friends are there to stay, Anne's empathetic wisdom is like a hug from a supportive older sister in book form.

Her insights help make the tough times a little easier and your connections a little stronger... with your loved ones and with yourself.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780316522359

Publisher: Little, Brown & Company

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 03 August 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Little, Brown & Company

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 180.0mm

Weight: 320g

Pages: 192

About the Author

Anne grew up in the San Francisco Bay area as a first-generation Filipino American, where friends and family always came to her for advice. As the eldest daughter in her family, she provided guidance to others, hoping to be the big sister she never had. When she graduated college and began teaching, her students looked to her for encouragement as well. So when she joined TikTok in 2019, it was natural for her to start posting about relationships. Over the last two years, Anne's relationship posts have helped her social media to grow to 6.8M followers on TikTok , 200K on Instagram, and 86K on YouTube.

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