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Dear Dolly

On Love, Life and Friendship, the instant Sunday Times bestseller
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Dear Dolly gathers Dolly Alderton's cherished agony aunt letters and responses from her popular Sunday Times Style column. Since 2020, Dolly has offered wisdom, warmth and wit to readers navigating heartbreak, body issues, friendships, dating, social media struggles, sex, loneliness and love. Her empathetic advice, informed by her own experiences, gently guides readers through life’s complexities, showing that sharing troubles can halve their weight.
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From the bestselling and beloved author of Everything I Know About Love and Ghosts—a collection of her favourite Dear Dolly agony aunt letters and answers from her hugely popular Sunday Times Style column—with an introduction by Dolly.

Since early 2020, Dolly Alderton has been sharing her wisdom, warmth and wit with the countless people who have written in to her Dear Dolly agony aunt column in The Sunday Times Style. Their questions range from the painfully—and sometimes hilariously—relatable to the occasionally bizarre. They include breakups and body issues, families, friendships, dating, divorce, the pleasures and pitfalls of social media, sex, loneliness, longing, love, and everything in between.

Without judgement, and with deep empathy informed by her own, much-chronicled adventures in love, friendship and dating, Dolly leads us by the hand through the various labyrinths of life, proving that a problem shared is truly a problem halved.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241623640

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 27 October 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Fig Tree

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 144.0mm

Height: 222.0mm

Weight: 361g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Dolly Alderton is an award-winning author, screenwriter and journalist based in London. She is a columnist for The Sunday Times Style and has also written for GQ, Red, Marie Claire and Grazia. She is the former co-host and co-creator of the podcast The High Low. Her first book Everything I Know About Love became a top five Sunday Times bestseller in its first week of publication, won a National Book Award (UK) for Autobiography of the Year and was made into a BBC One TV Series. Ghosts, her first novel was published by Fig Tree in 2020. Dear Dolly, a collection of her agony aunt columns from the Sunday Times Style magazine, was also a Sunday Times bestseller.

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