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Come Together

The Science (and Art) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections
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Come Together is the long-awaited follow-up to the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are, by a leading voice in sexual wellness. NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER 'Reassuring, wise, compassionate and funny' - THE TIMES This must-read guide delves into the science of making lasting sexual... Read More
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Come Together is the long-awaited follow-up to the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are, by a leading voice in sexual wellness.

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

'Reassuring, wise, compassionate and funny' - THE TIMES

This must-read guide delves into the science of making lasting sexual connections, from the bestselling author of Come As You Are.

What does it really take to create lasting sexual connections in long-term relationships? Most couples struggle at some point to maintain their sexual connection. However, much of the advice we receive on sex is either not very good or steeped in cultural assumptions and expectations that can end up hurting us.

In Come Together, leading sexual wellness educator, Dr Emily Nagoski, addresses one of the most misunderstood subjects of all timeโ€”sex in long-term relationshipsโ€”and reveals that much of what we've been taught about enjoying sex is wrong.

Featuring inclusive stories and examples from a wide range of couples and individuals, you'll discover what great sex really looks like and the best ways to overcome obstacles, including relationship conflicts, gendered beliefs about how sex 'should be', and body image concerns.

With insight, humour, and empathy, Come Together will radically transform the way you approach sex and desire, empowering you to create long-term, fulfilling sexual connections.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781785045011

Publisher: Ebury Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 January 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Vermilion

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 197.0mm

Weight: 260g

Pages: 368

About the Author

Emily Nagoski is the New York Times bestselling and award-winning author of Come as You Are and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout- The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. She has an MS in counselling and a PhD in Health Behaviour, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has been a sex educator for over twenty years, teaching women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies. She lives in Massachusetts with two dogs, a cat and a cartoonist.

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