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The Relationship Cards

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The Relationship Cards consist of 48 emotive and artistic images designed to help individuals explore and reflect on the key relationships in their lives. Covering themes such as trust, resentment, fear of abandonment, and encouragement, these cards facilitate meaningful and transformative conversations about feelings and values in relationships.

Accompanied by a booklet with instructions for safe and supportive use, the cards are ideal for educators, therapists, or anyone seeking to better understand personal connections. They also complement Margot Sunderland’s bestselling book Draw on Your Relationships, with translations provided in multiple languages.
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The Relationship Cards are 48 emotive and artistic images designed to help people to review the key relationships in their lives in a meaningful and often transformative way. The cards provide an engaging way for people to talk about and clarify their feelings and relationships.

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The Relationship Cards are 48 emotive and artistic images designed to help people to review the key relationships in their lives in a meaningful and often transformative way. The cards provide an engaging way for people to talk about and clarify their feelings, while reflecting on what they value in their relationships and what they might want to change.

Spanning both positive and negative states in relationships, the cards show themes such as trust, resentment, fear of abandonment, drifting apart, encouragement, and feeling supported. The accompanying booklet explains how to use the cards with participants in a supportive and safe way to facilitate deeper conversations about relationships with people in their lives, past and present. Accompanying translations are provided in German, French, Swedish, Dutch, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, and Japanese.

This beautiful resource can be used by educators, therapists, or anyone wishing to open a dialogue about relationships. It is also a perfect supplement to Draw on Your Relationships, Margot Sunderland’s bestselling book. The second edition of Draw on Your Relationships contains a new section that explains how to get the most out of combining the activities in the book with these cards to encourage meaningful conversations and take steps towards positive action.

Intended for use in educational settings and/or therapy contexts under the supervision of an adult. This is not a toy.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781138071018

Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd

Format: Cards

Date Published: 01 October 2018

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Routledge

Illustration: 48 Illustrations, color

Audience: Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Width: 105.0mm

Height: 148.0mm

Weight: 405g

Pages: 48

About the Author

Dr Margot Sunderland is Director of Education and Training at The Centre for Child Mental Health London, Senior Associate of the Royal College of Medicine and Child Psychotherapist with over thirty years’ experience of working with children and families. Dr Sunderland is the author of over twenty books in child mental health, which collectively have been translated into eighteen languages and published in twenty-four countries. Her books, which form the Helping Children with Feelings series are used as key therapeutic tools by child professionals all over the UK and abroad.

Nicky Armstrong holds an MA from the Slade School of Fine Art and a BA Hons in Theatre Design from the University of Central England. She is the principal artist at The London Art House and has illustrated over 20 books, which have been published in many countries. Nicky has also achieved major commissions nationally and internationally in mural work and fine art.

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