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Ruby and the Rubbish Bin

A Story for Children with Low Self-Esteem
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Ruby struggles with deep self-loathing and bullying at school, feeling more like rubbish than a little girl. Her life begins to change when she meets Dot, the kind lunchtime lady, whose warmth helps Ruby move from self-hate to self-respect. With Dot's support, Ruby gains confidence, stands up to her bullies, makes friends, and experiences happiness for the first time.
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This book is ideal for children experiencing bullying or low self-esteem, as well as parents, educators, and professionals supporting young people dealing with self-worth and social challenges.

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Ruby hates herself so much that she often feels like a piece of rubbish than a little girl. Sometimes Ruby feels so miserable that she wants to sleep and never wake up again. Then one day, Ruby meets Dot, When Ruby feels Dot's kindness and understanding, something warm happens in her tummy, Dot helps Ruby to move from self-hate to self-respect.

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Ruby and the Rubbish Bin tells the poignant story of Ruby, a little girl who despises herself so much that she feels more like a piece of rubbish than a child. At school, she is bullied by other children. Her misery often makes her want to sleep endlessly, never to wake again.

Everything changes when Ruby meets Dot, the lunchtime lady. With Dot's kindness and understanding, Ruby begins to feel something warm in her tummy. Over time, Dot helps Ruby transform from self-hate to self-respect. Dot's smile makes Ruby feel like a princess.

After experiencing a very important dream and receiving support from Dot, Ruby decides she has had enough. She finds her voice and her anger, stands up to the bullies, and begins making new friends. For the first time in her life, she experiences what it feels like to be happy.

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Adoption Today praises the series for its excellent writing and artwork, offering strong encouragement to use this material. Families Magazine calls it a vital resource for parents and child professionals alike. Special Children highlights it as a digestible teaching aid valuable in every school setting.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780863884627

Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 October 2003

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Speechmark Publishing Ltd

Contributors:

  • Illustrated by Nicky Armstrong

Audience: Primary and secondary education, Children

DIMENSIONS

Width: 200.0mm

Height: 297.0mm

Weight: 112g

Pages: 32

About the Author

Margot Sunderland, Nicky Hancock, Nicky Armstrong

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