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Special Topics in a Being Human
A Queer and Tender Guide to Things I've Learned the Hard Way about Caring For People, Including Myself
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Celebrated trans author S. Bear Bergman's illustrated guide to practical advice for the modern age, filtered through a queer lens.
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As an author, educator, and public speaker, S. Bear Bergman has documented his experience as, among other things, a trans parent, with wit and aplomb. He also writes the advice column Ask Bear, in which he answers crucial questions about how best to make our collective way through the world.
Featuring disarming illustrations by Saul Freedman-Lawson, Special Topics in Being a Human elaborates on Ask Bear's premise: a gentle, witty, and insightful book of practical advice for the modern age. It offers Dad advice and Jewish bubbe wisdom, all filtered through a queer lens, to help you navigate some of the complexities of life—from how to make big decisions or make a good apology, to how to get someone's new name and pronouns right as quickly as possible, to how to gracefully navigate a breakup.
With warmth and candor, Special Topics in Being a Human calls out social inequities and injustices in traditional advice-giving, validates your feelings, asks a lot of questions, and tries to help you be your best possible self with kindness, compassion, and humour.
'Sweet, soulful, and deeply humane. Bear at his best.' Alison Bechdel, author of Fun Home
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S. Bear Bergman's Special Topics in a Being Human is highly praised for its heartfelt and humane approach. The book is described as offering life advice with warmth, humour, and pragmatism, akin to guidance from a wise, supportive family member. It provides insights on becoming a kinder, more thoughtful and compassionate person in today's world.
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ISBN: 9781551528540
Publisher: Arsenal Pulp Press
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 16 December 2021
Country: Canada
Imprint: Arsenal Pulp Press
Illustration: 256 Illustrations
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Width: 178.0mm
Height: 254.0mm
Weight: 250g
Pages: 256
About the Author
S. Bear Bergman is a writer, storyteller, activist, and the founder and publisher of the book press Flamingo Rampant, which makes feminist, culturally diverse children's picture books about LGBT2Q+ kids and families. He writes creative non-fiction for grown-ups, fiction for children, resolutely factual features for various publications, and the advice column "Asking Bear." His books include The Nearest Exit May Be Behind Us and Blood, Marriage, Wine & Glitter, and he was the co-editor along with Kate Bornstein of Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation.
Saul Freedman-Lawson is an illustrator, student, zine-maker, babysitter, and educator. He makes art about queerness, transness, Judaism, and childhood. His comic Naturally is forthcoming from Old Growth Press. He likes to draw excitingly gendered people with big noses. This is his first full-length book.
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