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I'm Sorry You Feel That Way

the whip-smart domestic comedy you won't be able to put down
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This book may appeal to you if you enjoy exploring complex familial dynamics woven into romantic storytelling. It's perfect for those who appreciate a blend of humour and poignancy while navigating the intricacies of relationships and misunderstandings. If you have an interest in character-driven narratives that delve into emotional depth, this may be the right choice for you.

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Immensely readable and gorgeously comic, this is Rebecca Wait at her best.

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'IT'LL EASILY BE ONE OF MY BOOKS OF THE YEAR' Hannah Beckerman

'Just read it. You'll see' The Times

'Funny, tender and sad' Sunday Express

'If you liked Meg Mason's Sorrow and Bliss, you'll love this novel' Good Housekeeping

'One of the richest explorations of family dysfunction I've read' the i newspaper

'Razor-sharp' Observer

'One of the funniest novels you'll read this year' Guardian

THE BOOK THAT YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO PUT DOWN

For Alice and Hanna, saint and sinner, growing up is a trial. There is their mother, who takes a divide-and-conquer approach to child-rearing, and their father, who takes an absent one. There is also their older brother Michael, whose disapproval is a force to be reckoned with.

There is the catastrophe that is never spoken of, but which has shaped everything . . .

As adults, Alice and Hanna must deal with disappointments in work and in love as well as increasingly complicated family tensions, and lives that look dismayingly dissimilar to what they'd intended. They must look for a way to repair their own fractured relationship, and they must finally choose their own approach to their dominant mother: submit or burn the house down. And they must decide at last whether life is really anything more than (as Hanna would have it) a tragedy with a few hilarious moments.

From the author of the Waterstones Book of the Month Our Fathers comes a compelling domestic comedy about complex family dynamics, mental health and the intricacies of sibling relationships. WHAT READERS ARE SAYING

5* 'I adored this book'

5* 'A brilliant novel about a dysfunctional family'

5* 'This book blew me away'

5* 'Loved, loved, loved this! Laugh-out-loud funny and beautifully poignant'

5* 'The best book I've read this year'

Rebecca's new novel Havoc is out this July.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781529420463

Publisher: Quercus Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 March 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: riverrun

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 34.0mm

Width: 126.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 280g

Pages: 400

About the Author

Rebecca is the author of four novels, the most recent of which, I'm Sorry You Feel That Way, was a Times, Guardian, Express, Good Housekeeping and BBC Culture Book of the Year. Her previous novel, Our Fathers, received widespread acclaim and was a Guardian book of the year and a thriller of the month for Waterstones.

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