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What Happened to Make You Anxious?

How to Uncover the Little “t” Traumas that Drive Your Anxiety, Worry, and Fear
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What Happened to Make You Anxious? by Jaime Castillo offers a revolutionary approach to managing anxiety by working with it rather than against it. The book explores how anxiety is linked to 'little t' traumas—small, unhealed past events that drive fear and worry. Castillo guides readers to listen to their anxiety, differentiate real threats from those triggered by past trauma, and transform their relationship with anxiety to live a fulfilling, meaningful life.
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This book is ideal for individuals experiencing anxiety who seek to understand its roots and redevelop their response to it. Mental health practitioners, therapists, and those interested in personal growth and emotional healing will also find it valuable.

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Is your anxiety trying to tell you something? And what would happen if you listened? In What Happened to Make You Anxious?, an anxiety and trauma expert offers a counter-intuitive approach to help readers tune in to the truth behind their anxiety, address the unhealed past traumas that drive their fear and worry, and live the life they truly want.

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Listen up! It's time to change the way you manage your anxiety—by working with it rather than against it. This revolutionary guide provides the key to understanding the root cause of your anxiety, so you can break free from its grip.

Let's face it: anxiety can interfere with every single aspect of your life, from work and family to relationships and finances. Left unchecked, the cycle of anxiety reinforces and perpetuates itself over time, and can leave you feeling paralysed with fear. You've probably attempted to "get rid of" or "outrun" your anxiety, only to find your symptoms growing even stronger. What you need is a new way to deal with anxiety: one that emphasises listening to what your anxiety is trying to tell you.

In What Happened to Make You Anxious?, anxiety expert Jaime Castillo offers a whole new approach; one that focuses less on avoiding or extinguishing anxiety, and more toward understanding and working with it to create a fulfilling, meaningful life. You'll learn how your anxiety is connected to what Castillo refers to as "little 't' traumas"—seemingly small, unhealed traumas from your past that drive your fear and worry, so you can get to the root of your anxiety and start healing.

Your anxiety works overtime communicating perceived threats; this book will show you how to listen to anxiety, discern which threats are real, which don't fit the actual facts of the situation, and which are triggered by past events. Once you and your anxiety are on the same page, anxiety will loosen its grip—freeing you up to live with clarity, confidence, and serenity.

You've tried managing it on your own. You may have even received treatment. If you're at your wit's end when it comes to your anxiety, this book will show you a new path toward lasting relief.

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Highly praised by mental health professionals, this book is acclaimed as an incredible resource for those struggling with anxiety and underlying traumas. Reviewers commend Castillo for helping readers explore not just symptoms but the functional purpose of anxiety, offering practical tools and wisdom to respond effectively to fears and overwhelm. It is recommended for anyone looking to improve their relationship with anxiety.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781684038756

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 07 July 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: New Harbinger Publications

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 12.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 226.0mm

Weight: 260g

Pages: 192

About the Author

Jaime Castillo, LCSW, is founder of Find Your Shine Therapy, and a licensed clinical social worker specializing in the treatment of trauma and anxiety disorders. She is a certified eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapist and EMDRIA-approved consultant, and has additional training in internal family systems (IFS) and exposure therapy. She specializes in working with adults experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), phobias, and generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). Jaime has been featured for her trauma expertise in The Arizona Republic, The Verge, and Phoenix Voyage Magazine where she was named a Top Inspiring Phoenix Professional. She was a speaker at the 2020 Global Resiliency Summit alongside world-renowned mental health professionals, and appeared as a guest trauma and shame expert on The Things We Couldn't Say podcast.

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