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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition

Understanding the Borderline Personality
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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus offers an insightful exploration into borderline personality disorder (BPD). This updated edition provides a deeper understanding of the disorder, addressing its complex symptoms and offering guidance for those affected and their loved ones. Through recent research and practical advice, it aims to demystify BPD and promote effective management and growth.
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The revised and expanded third edition of the bestselling guide to understanding borderline personality disorder, with advice for communicating with and helping the borderline individuals in your life.

After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I Hate You - Don't Leave Me now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual abuse, post-traumatic stress syndrome, ADHD, and eating disorders.

Both pharmacological and psychotherapeutic advancements point to real hope for success in the treatment and understanding of BPD.

This expanded and revised edition is an invaluable resource for those diagnosed with BPD and their family, friends, and colleagues, as well as professionals and students in the field. The practical tools and advice are easy to understand and use in your day-to-day interactions with the borderline individuals in your life.

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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Third Edition, by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus, is generally well-received in the self-help and personal development genre. Critics appreciate its accessible writing style and insightful exploration of borderline personality disorder. Readers commend the book for its practical advice and updated content, making it a valuable resource for understanding and managing the disorder.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780593418499

Publisher: Penguin Putnam Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 07 September 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: TarcherPerigee

Edition: 3rd Revised edition

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 336

About the Author

Jerold J. Kreisman, MD, is a psychiatrist and leading expert on borderline personality disorder. He has written two books on the disorder- the bestselling I Hate You-Don't Leave Me and Sometimes I Act Crazy. He contributes regularly for Psychology Today and is in private practice in St. Louis, Missouri. Hal Straus is a professional health and medical writer who has penned five books, including the bestselling I Hate You-Don't Leave Me (with Jerold J. Kreisman, MD), and has contributed numerous articles to Ladies' Home Journal, Men's Health, and Redbook.

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