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Who Deserves Your Love

How to Create Boundaries to Start, Strengthen or End Any Relationship
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A compassionate, humane, and neurodivergent-friendly guide to relationships from licensed therapist and TikTok sensation KC Davis. OUT NOW 'Brilliant book. Concise and easy to read. There's none of that extraneous waffle which makes other books so off-putting. It's clear, straight to the point and extremely easy... Read More
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A compassionate, humane, and neurodivergent-friendly guide to relationships from licensed therapist and TikTok sensation KC Davis.

OUT NOW

'Brilliant book. Concise and easy to read. There's none of that extraneous waffle which makes other books so off-putting. It's clear, straight to the point and extremely easy to apply' - Ann Russell, author of How to Save Money and How to Clean Everything

From the acclaimed therapist, TikToker, and author of the neurodivergent-friendly book How to Keep House While Drowning comes a groundbreaking exploration of relationships for all.

Is love conditional? How do you navigate a relationship when someone's best efforts are causing you pain? Should you stay or leave?

In Who Deserves Your Love, licensed therapist and TikTok sensation KC Davis tackles these tough questions with warmth and insight. This practical guide explores how vulnerability and trauma shape our connections, offering tools to help you discern who truly deserves your time. With radical honesty and a compassionate touch, KC explores how:

  • Conflict can be a form of intimacy
  • Small moments strengthen relationships
  • Coping strategies around vulnerability foster stronger bonds
  • Emotional regulation and boundaries are essential
  • A relationship decision tree can empower your choices

Packed with lists and diagrams to guide you through the complexities of love and relationships, this book is the clear and concise guide you need to find love and be loved - exactly as you are.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781529944129

Publisher: Cornerstone

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 15 May 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Cornerstone Press

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 133.0mm

Height: 183.0mm

Weight: 244g

Pages: 240

About the Author

KC Davis is a licensed professional therapist, author, and speaker. She is the creator of the mental health platform Struggle Care, where she shares a revolutionary approach to self and home care for those dealing with mental health, physical illness, and hard seasons of life. KC's own home descended into chaos when she began suffering from anxiety and postnatal depression. She also received a late diagnosis of adult ADHD that shed additional light on why everyday care tasks were so difficult for her. Now she is a speaker and advocate for mental health and recovery. Professionally, KC has worked most of her career in the field of addiction in roles such a therapist, consultant, and executive director. She lives in Houston with her husband and two daughters.

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