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The Kids' Guide to Speaking Your Mind Without Losing Your Cool

Brief Description
How do we end up with different ideas and opinions? How can we talk about these ideas and opinions with each other even when we disagree?Such as:-When I read, see or hear something, how do I know if it's true or false? -What if I'm right... Read More
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Help sharpen up your child's thinking and debating skills with this fun and engaging book that includes imaginative activities to encourage cool, calm and rational thinking, from one of Australia's most popular scientists.

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How do we end up with different ideas and opinions? How can we talk about these ideas and opinions with each other even when we disagree?

Such as:
-When I read, see or hear something, how do I know if it's true or false?
-What if I'm right and my friend's wrong? How do we stay friends?
- Is it okay to change my mind?

Dr Matt explains how to avoid confirmation bias and us-vs-them thinking, and how to stay calm and show respect to others in the heat of an argument, along with tips on how to debate. Included are some thought experiments to do at home or in the classroom that will help kids speak their mind without losing their cool.

Dr Matt Agnew is a popular author and commentator on TV and radio including appearances on The Morning Show, ABC News Breakfast, ABC Melbourne, Wave FM, Triple J and popular podcasts such as Dr Karl's Shirtload of Science.

'Public speaking is an essential life skill ... the simple approach to complex concepts makes this text ideal for Stage 3-4 Classrooms. Whether it is a Public Speaking Unit or an extra-curricular program, you are sure to find something that can help guide the next generation of movers and shakers.' Ruth R. ( Secondary Teacher NSW)


'Fabulously informative ... In a world full of misinformation, this book is a terrifically valuable tool for all ages.' Good Reading Magazine

What you'll learn to do in this book:
Sharpen your thinking
Debate like a pro
Choose the right words
Change your mind
Exercise your brain
Take deep breaths
Listen with care

Perfect for:
- Readers aged 10+
- The curious kid with big thoughts and strong feelings
- The keen and not-so-keen debater and public speaker
- Parents, teachers and librarians looking for fun and accessible resources that encourage critical and mindful thinking, effective communication and informed and responsible consumption of media
- Anyone who wants to know more about public speaking, critical thinking and debating

Content includes:
Do you want to win an argument?
Nature or nurture?
What about the social media algorithm?
How do you know what's true and what's false?
What if you're right and your friend's wrong?
How can you argue without getting into a fight?
Do you have to agree with your friends?
Can you change your mind?
How do you regulate your emotions?
What if your friend is down a rabbit hole?

Praise for Is My Phone Reading My Mind:
- 'A must-have guide for tech-challenged parents (like me) and their better-informed kids!' Jessica Rowe
- 'Should be compulsory reading in every school across the country.' Tracey Spicer AM

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781761182266

Publisher: Allen & Unwin

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 February 2026

Country: Australia

Imprint: A&U Children

Audience: Children

DIMENSIONS

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 244g

Pages: 192

About the Author

Dr Matt Agnew is more than a scientist; he's an edutainer who helps make science, maths and technology fun and accessible for everyone.

With myriad appearances across media channels, and a social media profile with a wide and varied audience, Dr Matt is a passionate and engaging scientist who has worn many hats - as an engineer, an astrophysicist, and an artificial intelligence expert - and has become a popular commentator on the latest happenings in the world of science.

Dr Matt has a Doctorate in Astrophysics and a Masters in Artificial Intelligence. He was born in Adelaide, raised in Perth and now lives in Melbourne with his dog Pluto.

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