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How to Be Alone

If You Want To, and Even If You Don't
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How to Be Alone by Lane Moore is a candid memoir detailing the author's journey through the challenges of solitude and the quest for emotional connections. Blending humour with heartfelt anecdotes, Moore explores themes of self-discovery, resilience, and the importance of finding solace within oneself when the world feels isolating. This intimate narrative offers readers both comfort and inspiration in navigating their own paths toward acceptance and personal growth.
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You might enjoy this book if you appreciate candid and insightful memoirs exploring themes of loneliness, self-discovery, and finding connection in unexpected places. With its blend of humour and raw vulnerability, it could particularly resonate with those who have ever felt isolated and are seeking to understand themselves better.

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The former Sex & Relationships Editor for Cosmopolitan and host of the wildly popular comedy show Tinder Live with Lane Moore presents her poignant, funny, and deeply moving first book.

Lane Moore is a rare performer who is as impressive onstage—whether hosting her iconic show Tinder Live or being the enigmatic front woman of It Was Romance—as she is on the page, as both a former writer for The Onion and an award-winning sex and relationships editor for Cosmopolitan. But her story has had its obstacles, including being her own parent, living in her car as a teenager, and moving to New York City to pursue her dreams. Through it all, she looked to movies, TV, and music as the family and support systems she never had.

From spending the holidays alone to having better “stranger luck” than with those closest to her to feeling like the last hopeless romantic on earth, Lane reveals her powerful and entertaining journey in all its candour, anxiety, and ultimate acceptance—with humour always her bolstering force and greatest gift.

How to Be Alone is a must-read for anyone whose childhood still feels unresolved, who spends more time pretending to have friends online than feeling close to anyone in real life, who tries to have genuine, deep conversations in a roomful of people who would rather you not. Above all, it’s a book for anyone who desperately wants to feel less alone and a little more connected through reading her words.

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Lane Moore's How to Be Alone is widely praised for its honest and candid exploration of loneliness intertwined with humour and wit. Reviewers commend Moore's ability to make readers feel less isolated through her introspective, relatable storytelling, comparing the book to an empathetic friend and a source of encouragement. The memoir is described as a blend of humour and melancholy, offering insightful perspectives on personal resilience and the human experience.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781501178832

Publisher: Atria Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 15 November 2018

Country: United States

Imprint: Atria Books

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 213.0mm

Weight: 170g

Pages: 224

About the Author

Lane Moore is an award-winning comedian, writer, actor, and musician. The New York Times called her comedy show Tinder Live “ingenious.” Her comedy and her band, It Was Romance, have been praised everywhere from Pitchfork to Vogue, and her writing has appeared everywhere from The New Yorker to The Onion. She is the former sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan, where she received a GLAAD Award for her groundbreaking work expanding the magazine’s queer coverage. She lives in Brooklyn with her dog-child, Lights. You can follow Lane at @HelloLaneMoore on Instagram and Twitter or visit LaneMoore.org.

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