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Brain-Based Parenting

The Neuroscience of Caregiving for Healthy Attachment
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Brain-Based Parenting by Daniel A. Hughes and Jonathan Baylin delves into the neuroscience behind caregiving, exploring how brain mechanisms, hormones, and chemicals influence parental behaviour. The authors discuss how stress and early attachment patterns can disrupt natural caregiving impulses, creating challenges for parents. They outline five brain-linked caregiving systems, explaining how to recognise and manage emotional stress to foster empathy, curiosity, and playfulness in parent-child relationships. Through clinical examples and clear illustrations, the book reveals how understanding neurobiology can transform strained family dynamics into nurturing, loving connections.
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This book is ideal for parents, therapists, and anyone interested in the neuroscience behind parenting and attachment. It suits readers seeking scientifically informed approaches to improving parent-child relationships and managing caregiving stress.

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An attachment specialist and a clinical psychologist with neurobiology expertise team up to explore the brain science behind parenting.

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In this groundbreaking exploration of the brain mechanisms behind healthy caregiving, attachment specialist Daniel A. Hughes and veteran clinical psychologist Jonathan Baylin guide readers through the intricate web of neuronal processes, hormones, and chemicals that drive—and sometimes thwart—our caregiving impulses, uncovering the mysteries of the parental brain.

The biggest challenge to parents, Hughes and Baylin explain, is learning how to regulate emotions that arise—feeling them deeply and honestly while staying grounded and aware enough to preserve the parent–child relationship. Stress, which can lead to "blocked" or dysfunctional care, can impede our brain's inherent caregiving processes and negatively impact our ability to do this. While the parent–child relationship can generate deep empathy and the intense motivation to care for our children, it can also trigger self-defensive feelings rooted in our early attachment relationships and give rise to "unparental" impulses.

Learning to be a "good parent" is contingent upon learning how to manage this stress, understand its brain-based cues, and respond in a way that will set the brain back on track. To this end, Hughes and Baylin define five major "systems" of caregiving as they’re linked to the brain, explaining how they operate when parenting is strong and what happens when good parenting is compromised or "blocked." With this awareness, we learn how to approach kids with renewed playfulness, acceptance, curiosity, and empathy, re-regulate our caregiving systems, foster deeper social engagement, and facilitate our children's development.

Infused with clinical insight, illuminating case examples, and helpful illustrations, Brain-Based Parenting brings the science of caregiving to light for the first time. Far from just managing our children's behaviour, we can develop our "parenting brains," and with a better understanding of the neurobiological roots of our feelings and our own attachment histories, we can transform a fraught parent-child relationship into an open, regulated, and loving one.

Series: Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology

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Praised by the Journal of Psychiatric Practice for its relatable real-world insights, the book is recommended for both parents and clinicians interested in interpersonal biology. The Huffington Post highlights its authoritative treatment of neuroscience and parenting, while Daniel J. Siegel, in his foreword, commends the authors as compassionate guides who marry brain science with practical strategies to enhance parenting effectiveness and enjoyment.

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Book Details

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ISBN: 9780393707281

Publisher: WW Norton & Co

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 23 April 2012

Country: United States

Imprint: WW Norton & Co

Contributors:

  • Foreword by Daniel J. Siegel

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 165.0mm

Height: 244.0mm

Weight: 591g

Pages: 264

About the Author

Daniel A. Hughes, PhD, is a prominent attachment specialist and private practitioner. President of the Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute, he consults and gives trainings in the U.S. and abroad on issues of attachment and family therapy. He is the author of Attachment-Focused Family Therapy, Attachment-Focused Family Therapy Workbook, and Attachment-Focused Parenting. Jonathan Baylin, PhD, a psychologist in private practice, offers workshops for therapists on integrating knowledge about the brain with psychotherapy. Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. is a graduate of Harvard Medical School and completed his postgraduate medical education at UCLA with training in pediatrics and child, adolescent, and adult psychiatry. He is currently a clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, founding co-director of UCLA's Mindful Awareness Research Center, founding co-investigator at the UCLA Center for Culture, Brain and Development, and executive director of the Mindsight Institute, an educational center devoted to promoting insight, compassion, and empathy in individuals, families, institutions, and communities. Dr. Siegel's psychotherapy practice spans thirty years, and he has published extensively for the professional audience. He serves as the Founding Editor for theNorton Professional Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology which includes over three dozen textbooks. Dr. Siegel's books include Mindsight, Pocket Guide to Interpersonal Neurobiology, The Developing Mind, Second Edition, The Mindful Therapist, The Mindful Brain, Parenting from the Inside Out (with Mary Hartzell, M.Ed.), and the three New York Times bestsellers: Brainstorm, The Whole-Brain Child (with Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.), and his latest No-Drama Discipline (with Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.). He has been invited to lecture for the King of Thailand, Pope John Paul II, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Google University, and TEDx. For more information about his educational programs and resources, please visit: www.DrDanSiegel.com.

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