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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus - For Women Only

Be Happy With or Without a Man
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In Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus - For Women Only: How to Be Happy With or Without a Man, Dr. John Gray revisits his groundbreaking relationship insights through a modern lens. Drawing on more than three decades of counselling, research, and bestselling work,... Read More
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In Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus - For Women Only: How to Be Happy With or Without a Man, Dr. John Gray revisits his groundbreaking relationship insights through a modern lens. Drawing on more than three decades of counselling, research, and bestselling work, he explores how timeless differences between men and women still shape communication and emotional needs, while recognising that today's world requires new strategies.

Written specifically for women, this book offers practical tools to deepen self-awareness, balance emotions, and cultivate fulfilment that does not depend on a partner's behaviour. By showing how inner happiness forms the foundation of healthy relationships, Gray redefines what it means to experience lasting joyβ€”whether partnered or notβ€”in the modern world.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781970722017

Publisher: Mars Venus, LLC

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 20 January 2026

Imprint: Mars Venus, LLC

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 17.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 454g

Pages: 250

About the Author

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of alltime, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one ofthe top 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the#1 best-selling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.Dr. Gray has written more than 20 books. His Mars/Venus book series has foreverchanged the way men and women view their relationships.John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in bothpersonal and professional relationships. His approach combines specificcommunication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain andbody chemistry for lasting health, happiness, and romance.His many books, blogs, and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practicalinsights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of healthand optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcomingdepression, anxiety, and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance, and better sleep.John Gray lives in Northern California where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until herpassing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health andrelationship advice.

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