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It’s Just a Date

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In It’s Just a Date by Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt and Greg Behrendt, the authors explore the world of dating with humour and practicality. They offer insights into the modern dating scene, aiming to empower readers to approach dating with confidence and a healthier mindset. The book provides fresh perspectives on building meaningful relationships, focusing on what truly matters in the pursuit of love and connection.
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Enhance your dating life with practical advice and a sense of humour. This book may appeal to you if you enjoy insightful tips on navigating the modern dating scene, especially from the perspective of building meaningful connections.

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A fabulous new guide to dating co-authored by Greg Behrendt, former writer on Sex and the City, who won women's hearts with his three million copy bestseller He's Just Not That Into You.

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A fabulous new guide to dating co-authored by Greg Behrendt, former writer on Sex and the City, who won women's hearts with his three million copy bestseller He's Just Not That Into You.

What ever happened to dating?

Used to be that a guy would ask a girl out. He'd pick her up at her house and take her out for dinner, a movie, or a cup of coffee and some conversation. Then both parties would decide if they wanted to do it again next week. There was protocol. A standard set of guidelines to follow for this age-old ritual.

These days who even knows what dating is?

It's Just a Date gives you tools, not rules that you can use, while also opening you up to new ideas about how to date and who might be right for you. The book shows us how things have changed on the dating scene and what we need to do to adapt, including:

  • How the digital age has changed dating, from texting (the new not calling) to online dating.
  • The compromise: hooking up, booty calls and quasi dates – was it or wasn't it a date?
  • Exit strategies – how to pull the plug when the dating isn't working out.

Dating doesn't have to be hard – in fact, if not taken so seriously, it can be seriously fun.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780007228324

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 21 July 2008

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: HarperCollins

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 240g

Pages: 336

About the Author

Comedian Greg Behrendt was a consultant for three consecutive seasons on Sex and the City. His acclaimed stand-up comedy has been seen on HBO, The Tonight Show, Late Show with David Letterman and Late Night with Conan O''Brien. He lives in Los Angeles.Liz Tuccillo was the executive story editor of HBO''s Emmy-winning Sex and the City and has also written for Off Broadway. She lives in New York City

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