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Could Try Harder

An illustrated journey through an undiagnosed autistic adolescence
Brief Description
You just need to stay calm. You should be able to manage. You should have grown out of that by now. You could try harder. Eliza Fricker spent her adolescence being told all of these things, until her autism diagnosis as an adult revealed why she... Read More
Format: Paperback / softback
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A raw and empathetic illustrated memoir tracing the hidden cost of masking, the depth of autistic girlhood, and the quiet resilience demanded for survival in a world that never seems to notice you're struggling and where you always feel just out of step.

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You just need to stay calm. You should be able to manage. You should have grown out of that by now. You could try harder.

Eliza Fricker spent her adolescence being told all of these things, until her autism diagnosis as an adult revealed why she may not have met the expectations of others so easily. Equally, the world didn't seem to live up to the expectations she had of it.

Following on from her earlier book Thumbsucker, this graphic memoir narrates the complexities of Eliza's teenage years through to the beginnings of adult relationships; exploring the key stages of life from secondary school to college and then work.

It was only as an adult that Eliza heard autism being talked about and wondered about getting diagnosed. She met others who identified as neurodivergent. They shared similar stories and struggles, and so, with her own eventual diagnosis, she started to process her experiences and write about it. And while diagnosis doesn't bring all the answers, it has allowed her to look back on her younger self with a bit more understanding and compassion - something she now wishes for others.

As more young people explore their neurodivergence, this book will encourage readers to take an empathetic look back at their experiences and honour the identity they have created for themselves, in response to their problematic experiences.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781472150097

Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 May 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Robinson

Illustration: c. 200 black and white integrated illustrations

Contributors:

  • Afterword by Laura James
  • Introduction by Emma Offord
  • Afterword by Emma Offord
  • Foreword by Laura James

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 16.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 232.0mm

Weight: 186g

Pages: 144

About the Author

Eliza Fricker is an illustrator and author whose deceptively simple illustrations give way to endearingly perceptive and detailed observations, which are often irreverently humorous and highly emotional. She writes about autism and education with beautiful artistic expression of difference in today's society. Her work serves as a thought provoking and valuable contribution to visibility, acceptance and support. Her publications act as a way to communicate difficult circumstances with teachers, educators, social workers, other parents and friends of those also experiencing these issues, with the hope of providing a drop more humanity in the world. She is the author, co-author and illustrator of several popular books including her graphic memoir Can't Not Won't, which was a Sunday Times bestseller.

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